her father was sick with cancer.........i supported her u ntil he dies and wen to his wake.........which it was five months later that he dies
all of the sudden, she ims to me and say i am not ur friend anymore. u were mean to me
how that possible.........i never was mean to her.........how could she do that to me
2006-08-06 02:45:59 · 14 answers · asked by baby s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
talk to her
2006-08-06 15:58:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes this happens ,sometimes some people are like this.They forget the help you delivered to them.So dont feel sad and look for a good friend who will be with you for life long.
2006-08-06 09:53:04 · answer #2 · answered by Mehbooba 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well when people are presented with death they often try to rationalize things and do it in thet wrong way. it dosnt happen often. Theres a name for it I just dont know what its called.
Talk to her. How long after her dads death did this happen?
You need to talk to her. Its all part of the grieveing process.
2006-08-06 09:52:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not giving enough detail. Is it possible she is still in mourning? She could be hyper-sensitive about things if she is. Otherwise, we're missing a piece of the puzzle here.
2006-08-06 09:51:04 · answer #4 · answered by tigra1021 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she is still recovering from her father's death, and doesn't want to be around anyone who reminds her of that. You were there for her, so she may want to cut you off. Leave it alone, and if she is really your friend she will realize what she has done and contact you again.
2006-08-06 09:50:30 · answer #5 · answered by Nefertiti 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her what the matter really is n how were u mean to her. or hav u offended her in some ways that u dn't notice? perhaps this is all a misunderstanding only.
2006-08-06 09:51:21 · answer #6 · answered by phyphy... 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not much of a friend. Consider it her loss and go on with your life. However curiosity would kill me .. and I would HAVE to find out what she "thought" I did that was considered mean.
2006-08-06 09:52:05 · answer #7 · answered by Peanut Butter 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Her emotions are very fragile now
with her dad's death n all
u shud understand that
why don't u talk to her and ask her calmly why she's mad at u
2006-08-06 09:51:30 · answer #8 · answered by rita_slayer88 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless she's got other stuff going on she is not a friend and you can do better.....so move on with your life and find a friend who deserves you.
2006-08-06 09:51:36 · answer #9 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She used you. I have seen this before.
2006-08-06 09:49:15 · answer #10 · answered by Marvin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there might be a big misunderstanding. call her and ask her why she said that.
2006-08-06 09:50:56 · answer #11 · answered by archer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋