how do i get over the love of my life who has been taken from me?

Question

i had lovely boyfriend who was different culture to me..he went home to see his family for holiday and they have told him he is to get married and not come back to england..his family would kill him if he told them about me they are strict in their culture they arrange marriage.we were best friends never had a fight were so close used to chat all day on mobo maybe 4-5 times when we werent together..and now he has gone we didnt even get to say goodbye..it feels like he has died..its horrid..

Answer 1

Hey sweetie. you gave me some of the best advice ive ever gotten just by understanding at one of my questions and i dont think i can help too much but if u ever need sumone 2 talk to, even though im a complete stranger, im here. what ur going through must really be really really tough, and i dont think ill ever come close to understanding the half of it, but talking to someone always helps. is there any way u guys can speak to each other? over the phone, msn or anything? because maybe, even though there may be no way to fix it, it would still be nice for u to have a nice goodbye with ur loved one. this may be one of the hardest things ur gonna go through in ur life, but never give up one love, because if u believe in fate n karma, then ull know that if smthing is taken from u, ull get it back. if the one u love is taken from u, another lovely sweet guy will come n steal ur heart. i can only hope the best for u because i wouldnt wish smthing as sad as this on anyone and i hate to see it happen to u. i hope ull find some way to move on n find happiness. god bless n rmbr, uv got a girlfriend(though total stranger) here if u need neone.

Answer 2

Keep busy, either helping others or just having plain fun, get a pedicure, a massage, and STAY active, when you want to get up and mope or stay home and sleep or do NOTHING, volunteer! Remember there are people out there without food, clothing, shelter or who have come from a relationship that was abusive, and unlike yours ended to soon because it was bad for them in every way a relationship should not be. Try to focus on finding a way to channel your positive energy. You did not state whether you had any other close friends, but if you do and they are the understanding type, then lean on them, let them know what you are going through and they will keep you occupied. Just remember, the fact that he's gone is NOT what you focus on, you focus on the love you had, the fact that you AT least met him and had the great fortune to spend so much time with him and that is the thing you can be thankful for.

Answer 3

Consider yourself lucky, because if you had married this man the family would have tried to control your life. There is never just "one" person in the world for anyone. You will meet someone else, although you may not think so right now. Allow yourself time to grieve, be thankful for the time you had together, and move on with your life.

Answer 4

You will never get over losing someone you loved very much but you can remember them always in your heart. Everything happens for a reason so this is how things are supposed to be. One day someone new will come along and you will fall in love with them and they will heal your broken heart.

Answer 5

the answer is not one you'll prob. want to hear, firts if you truly love oneother, time is the only remedy. take how ever long you were together and time that by 2.5 and that typically is about how long it takes to get over a signifant other. well at least from my stand point, good luck.

Answer 6

Time. It's not fair, but give it time and keep your mind on other things. Can u email him? Explain what u feel, tell him u will move on, u just wanted to say goodbye.

Answer 7

whores help.