The other night me and my boyfriend are in the bedroom having sex and he said that he didn't go. I asked what I did wrong and he said that it had nothing to do with me. That I was great, it was just him. He hadn't been drinking and he wasn't overly tired. I'm confused now. I dont guess I understand how it wouldn't happen even though he really wanted it to. Does this happen to others and what can be done, if anything?
2006-08-06 02:29:50 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Men's Health
Probably he has sex problem? Gotta do some communication before sex if he does (Probably it was a guilt feeling when he and you did an intercourse). Go to a doctor if he still has this problem over and over again before it goes worst. Cheer him up and comfy him, when he is ready, give him some "hot warming up" time before intercourse (can be a smooth massage, lickin' all around his body slowly with love especially his "dodo" and below it will help more). Good luck and have a nice comfortable and romantic sex!
NB: Comfy him is the most important thing. Sometime a guy will hesitate to do "it" cos he is too much in love with his girlfriend, and feel that his girl is more precious then only do sexes (at least I felt this before, and my girl comfy me).
2006-08-06 02:54:44 · answer #1 · answered by Lee 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It happens to all men once in a while. If it happens regularly, though there may be a problem. It could be that he's stressed out over something, it could be that he is masturbating too often. I don't want to get into too many details here, but there are things you can do to help him when this happens.
2006-08-06 09:35:58 · answer #2 · answered by sparkletina 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is all mind game and it can happen to any person. Generally it happens to ladies due to different reasons, but sure men are not spared from this.
Only thing for you now will be not to discourage him and try to entice him and do the things which he likes and I hope everything will be fine.
Good luck!
2006-08-06 09:35:45 · answer #3 · answered by GS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Review aspects of E.D. on the net. This can affect many males both young and older. Also it may just be a psychological aspect. Talk about it with him and be kind!
2006-08-06 09:35:55 · answer #4 · answered by Cronus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not sure what can be done about it, but yes it does happen from time to time.
2006-08-06 09:33:54 · answer #5 · answered by goober 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it happens sometimes.
Do not freak out. It happens.
2006-08-06 09:33:38 · answer #6 · answered by Biker 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It happens.......don't worry about it unless it continues. He'll probaly come back hornier than ever.
2006-08-06 16:55:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why should just women get to fake it all the time? I hope you didn't fall for that "It's not you, it's me " line.
2006-08-06 16:58:14 · answer #8 · answered by preacher55 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pls use simplified english next time, but the fact is that he is no more enjoying you, make natural love next time, not with drugs
2006-08-06 09:38:10 · answer #9 · answered by adebola s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it happens to me and all men, no need to worry
2006-08-06 09:48:13 · answer #10 · answered by SportsMan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋