2006-08-06 01:32:01 · 32 answers · asked by sweet_tiggar1 1 in Health ➔ General Health Care ➔ Other - General Health Care
You are too young...learn how to make great pizza and impress your friends. Then go an learn how to type...with all ten fingers and practice typing the editorial pages of your local newspaper...you will learn something and impress your friends with your knowledge of a whole variety of subjects they don't even know exits. Be a smart girl, keep your virginity intact. Save if for someone special who will enter your life later... there are too many, too willing for an opportunity and they don't care about you at all. Care about yourself first, yourself second and it there is anything left over...yourself again.
My friends mother had an expression and I'll pass it along here for all young women...""A stiff dick has no conscience."
2006-08-12 05:24:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
About 90% of girls bleed the first time but its not much and you might not even notice, as for being sore yes the first time does hurt a little but it does get better and if you and your partner do a little foreplay (kissing, touching etc) this will excite you and will make it easier when you decide to have sex, my advice is if you are this worried about it, it might be an idea to speak to your boyfriend/partner about it , or just put it off for a while, dont be in any rush to have sex its much better if you wait until you are ready physically and emotionally
2006-08-11 03:49:20 · answer #2 · answered by Jeni 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will hurt and you will bleed - this is natural. But, why? You have a very thin layer of skin covering the opening to you inner vaginal wall. This skin must be broken to permit full intercourse. Like all skin that is broken, it bleeds and pain is associated with the 'tearing'. The point isn't weather or not you'll bleed or have pain, however. The point is that you're abviously not mentally ready if you are focused on this area of pain. Believe me - you'll know when you're ready. And the pain will be the last thing on your mind. Do yourself a favor and wait til then - it'll be worth it.
2006-08-06 01:53:51 · answer #3 · answered by DarM 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may be a bit painful and yes you may bleed, it is just what comes with the first time. If you are scared it is probably not the right time for you to be considering this action. Wait, you will have plenty when you get older. It is worth the wait.
2006-08-06 01:35:48 · answer #4 · answered by B R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you prepared for the following:
1) If you get pregnant, are you prepared to keep the baby or abort it?
2) Are you sure your partner has no sexually transmitted diesease?
3) Are you prepared if your partner abandons or leave you after sex, that is outside of marriage
4) Is just having sex what you want, or you need a deeper gratification that comes with love, commitment & companionship?
Show abstince, don't regret it. Find the right guy, if he is geninuely interested, he won't rush you into sex.
2006-08-06 01:41:01 · answer #5 · answered by ycwong 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The more worried you are about this, the more tense you will be and the more likely it is that sex for the first time will be painful.
Wait until you are 100% sure you are ready, and you are with someone you really love and trust. And most of all - take care and use contraception.
2006-08-06 03:31:09 · answer #6 · answered by justasiam29 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So...you wanna have sex eh? Well i hope you got everything ready that you will need...like a baby crib,stroller car seat, and tons and tons of diapers! Plus a lot of cash for the Medical bills.. And then there you will be.... sitting at home caring for the baby while you friends (and boy friend) are out partying! Think about about what you are about to do..and what comes with it!
2006-08-06 01:39:20 · answer #7 · answered by MC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, I recommend that you are old enough & by the looks of your grammar you are not. Yes it hurts...more or less depending on the size of your partner. Some bleed due to the ripping of the hymen, some don't. Perhaps you should talk to an adult about this.
2006-08-06 01:36:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is a vary good chance it may hurt and you may bleed. the thing to realize is that even on occasion it hurts even the seasoned professional-for lack of better words.
my partner and i have been together for 4 years and have a child together. there are times depending on the position, that it hurts or i may bleed if he is too deep. well worth the pain.
2006-08-06 01:39:05 · answer #9 · answered by cindy loo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may or may not bleed, depends on the build of you and your lover. I may hurt a little, like an ear piercing, but it gets less with time. I wish I knew your age, because if you are under 18, I truly hope you wait. And PLease, use protection, you can get pregnant and/or catch deadly diseases the first time.
2006-08-06 01:37:10 · answer #10 · answered by ? 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋