Then what should be the ideal age gap?
2006-08-06 00:37:06 · 10 answers · asked by sduhbls 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
age is just a number. do u and this person get along great, does this person makes u happy, can u see yourself with this person for a long time, do u love this person, do u have fun together, and can u not live without this person? if u answer yes to any of these questions then why should age matter it just a number don't get hang up on the age difference and don't worry what other people think about it. as long is u and the person is over 18 don't worry about it. u only get live life once.
2006-08-06 04:01:36 · answer #1 · answered by olive_olive_72 4 · 13⤊ 1⤋
Yes, age does make a difference. The age gap between a couple should never exceed 10 years, because there would be a couple of generations apart in their ways.For example, let's say you are 25, and you fall heads over heels for a woman who is 45. Lets also assume that the sex part of the relationship is great also. What are you two going to talk about the rest of your lives? She already had 20 years of life experiences, before you were born. Centainly you can't share the memories of the good old days with her, because you weren't alive then.
2006-08-06 07:47:10 · answer #2 · answered by WC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It actually does not matter of your 20 years older or she's 30 years older. I think the key in retaining a good and lasting relationship is trust and honesty:)
2006-08-06 07:42:32 · answer #3 · answered by wittlewabbit 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No there should be no limits to a good relationship except that both parties are over the legal age (min 18), otherwise why should there be a problem.
2006-08-06 07:43:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you truly love the other person, his/her soul love shouldn't matter. But sometimes matter when the gap is more that 15 years in your age.
2006-08-06 07:44:27 · answer #5 · answered by Sissy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It does matter. It matters a lot sometimes. I know someone my age and he is in love with a boy of 22. Its a very stormy relationship. I have dated young men and they have nothing in common with me. We have nothing to talk about. I always feel like a Daddy to them. My father married a lady closer to age with me than him. Now he is very old and she is still young and has to take care of him. They love each other a lot. Never saw a happier couple but it is a serious disadvantage. My step mom is going to lose him early in her life.
2006-08-06 07:44:03 · answer #6 · answered by John16 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope,it dosent matter at all.as long as the both of you understand,respect and listen to each other,age will never be a matter.and it dont mean that always men have to be the older sex here,there are no rules that says men has to be older than women in a relationship are there? and what about this men being older and wiser,who said women cant be wiser?
2006-08-06 08:09:54 · answer #7 · answered by sylvestercheese 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi , im 27 ,my bf is 41 and we have been together for 10 years ,for us it has only gotten better with time.
2006-08-06 07:48:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
8 years is optimum. Man should be older and wiser.
2006-08-06 07:42:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No,never has,never will.
2006-08-06 07:40:15 · answer #10 · answered by master_der_man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋