Assume the following.
1) You are with the girl for quite some time.
2) You love the girl but dont want to commit right now.
What would she do to make you commit ?
2006-08-05 22:24:32 · 16 answers · asked by Bachelor boy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If she is pressing the issue or giving you ultimatums. Use protection when having sex. If you don't want commitment you should not enjoy the full benefits of sex either. Be prepared to explain why you are not ready for a commitment. Are you not in a commited relationship now? What would the difference be for you?
2006-08-12 05:23:36 · answer #1 · answered by pretty_brown_eyes 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She could attempt suicide, like sleeping pills.
Get herself pregnant.
Pull the i have serious illness trick.
Get her family to put pressure on you.
Bewary condoms may be damaged.
Turn your friends against you so you only have her.
She could say its someones dieing wish to see her get married.
You dont have to get married because you love someone some should accept that a committted relatiobnship is marriage without the marriage certificate. Tell her she means world to you tho you dont need to be married to prove that, if she cant accept what she already has then maybe shes with wrong person.
2006-08-14 05:26:31 · answer #2 · answered by a mother 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She might get herself pregnant. Girls think that is one way to snag a husband but it does not always work. She might be so sweet and sexy and kind that you feel you cannot live without her. Maybe she does everything right in your eyes. The best advice I could give you is to be honest with her. Tell her you love her, but right now is not the time for marriage. Give her the reasons why it is not the right time, depending on your circumstances. If she loves you, she will understand and wait for you.
2006-08-14 02:51:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is trying to get you to commit to marriage, you'll know it. We women aren't usually very subtle about it. She'll be talking about weddings and marriage all the time.
2006-08-14 02:49:22 · answer #4 · answered by secondopinion 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her about your feelings---Non committal. Give her the choice to Move on or stay in a dead end relationship. Just be honest with her. Hey, you never know......You might just lose the best thing that ever happened to you!
2006-08-13 21:47:03 · answer #5 · answered by Mama Mia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she keeps talking about it that would be a sign. She can't make you do anything so Im not sure of the relevance of this.
Maybe you should talk to her about it? Are you too gutless to talk about it for fear of having an argument?
2006-08-14 04:59:40 · answer #6 · answered by Jeremy D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls don't "get themselves pregnant". It still takes a sperm to fertilize that egg. If you don't want an "unexpected" pregnancy to occur I suggest you don't have sex. If you don't want to commit then obviously you don't love her.
2006-08-14 04:54:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get herself pregnant... Holes in the condoms..
2006-08-06 05:27:49 · answer #8 · answered by Alex 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely, nothing..
If she's a real lady
(men are supposed to propose)
If she wants to spend the rest of her with u..
and u don't...why should she be with you
2006-08-06 07:54:34 · answer #9 · answered by Immortal Goddess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be careful with the condoms, she might try to get pregnant... I know somebody who did that (and got married).
2006-08-14 02:27:36 · answer #10 · answered by ms. M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋