My boyfriend had phone conv with my mother and she told him she doesn't have time for a boyfriend she has other things to be worrying about,she told that was not allow to talk to him anymore,and if I called him she told him to tell me he was not interested anymore. but now when try to IM him he won't say a thing. I love my parents I was always told obey but I love him what should I do?
2006-08-05 21:22:25 · 8 answers · asked by Daniela 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am 17 my boyfriend is 18
2006-08-05 21:33:25 · update #1
My dear.
Listen to your parents.
Without the blessings of your parents you can never be successful in life. They will always want their child to be happy.
Can you feel your parents, what pain they must have taken to bring you up. Feel the pain of 9months in your mothers womb. Feel the pain when you must have potted on your parents. Feel the pain when you cry for a thing which she cannot afford to give you.
Your parents should be everything for you.
Listen to your parents.
You see if your love is true , you will surely be there and you will get him.
At the same times as per the gesture's shown by your parents. i have still some doubts about your other sex i.e. your boyfriend.
My be he just seems to be playing with your feelings & you too.
So be careful dear, have patients concentrate on you future.
Regards,
AGNELO PEREIRA
2006-08-05 22:04:33 · answer #1 · answered by Agnelo P 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't say how old you are or what kind of a boyfriend this guy is.
If you're young, say 13 or younger, you really have to accept your mother's rules unless she's being completely unreasonable or selfish. She does know life better than you.
If you are old enough to have boyfriends and your mother forbids it, you should educate her that this is a normal part of growing up and that if you aren't allowed to socialize you're going to be lonely and maybe have trouble later in life as you learn how to deal with men. It also depends how mature you are, and the guy.
Also, this depends on how serious you want to be. A 13-year-old girl should be able to talk to a guy, hang out, etc. At some age you should be able to go out on a date.
If he's not responding, that's his choice and there may not be anything you can do. You don't love him. There's no way you could because you do not know him well. You are just interested in him. Big difference. There will be other boys in the future.
2006-08-06 04:30:40 · answer #2 · answered by Monso Orda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? I'm guessing under 18, Ignore your parents and go to him because you're unhappy and you love him. If you don't you'll be wondering alot of what if, could if's in the future. I don't mean run away with him I mean just date him behind your mom's back if he treats you well. And if he will talk to you again. How does the guy feel about this whole situation talk to him about it. I'm assuming your like 16 or 17 here. Sorry didn't understand the last part of the question, tell him the truth what your mom said to him, tell him that it was your mom not you and that you still love him.
2006-08-06 04:28:03 · answer #3 · answered by hearts99992000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is really hard to say without knowing how old you are. When I was growing up some of my female friends had parents who were a bit over protective and didn't want them to have boyfriends until they were darn near out of highschool. The best advice I can give you is to don't be so hard on your parents and to talk to them. You may not realize it but they really do have your best interest at heart. A lot of teenage boys are in a big hurry to reach what they consider to be "manhood" which is to start having sex. Believe me when I tell you, at that age, even the nice guys have sex on their mind. I will be praying for you and hope everything works out. Peace and God bless.
2006-08-06 04:34:34 · answer #4 · answered by cave man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi,
How are you doing in school? Are you helping around the house?
There is a reason why they don't want him to be with you. There is something you need to be doing,that you are not. What
is he doing ? what does your future like look with him?
My a list of pro and con with the relationship. then why is it that your parents don't like him. take it from there.
2006-08-06 04:36:07 · answer #5 · answered by hi-bri 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your not old enough to move out then listen to your parents.
2006-08-06 04:46:41 · answer #6 · answered by omsuperhoops 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would listen to your mother.....remember....your mother will always be around for you.....a teenage boy wont....i dont know how many times i kicked myself in the butt for not listening to my mom about girls....she was always right....go figure...
2006-08-06 04:30:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
run off with him
2006-08-06 04:27:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋