And they had kids or were in a relationship...but wanted to be with you, would you try again ?
2006-08-05 21:20:19 · 14 answers · asked by GoldenLocs 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That question is a good one!!! I know that I would on matter what.. If you had a good relationship and things were not that bad and you still respect them and have no hard feelings towards them then yes... I know ppl on here are saying not to or to move on but not to many ppl have have that chance to get back together. If it is ment to be then yall would get back together and it must be ment to be. When you leave someone you leave because you love them and what to let them go in the first place so they can find them self. And if they come back then they must have found out something and that would be that they wanted to be with you but @ the time they really did not know or they were confused. It really depends on how the relationship ended and how it was. If you were hatting each other and did not get along with them and there was fighting or abuse in it then I would say no. If you had a bad sex life at all then no, But if there was not any of the above then I would say go for it. My self my family got into my **** and ruin it for me and that was 12 years of a good relationship that could have been a life time but things happen and ppl get there feelings hurt and they think that they need to leave the person so that the familys will get along.. Well that Is not how it is to be when you know that there is true LOVE there on both sides. So I would say if the LOVE is there then I would take it in a min you never know what your missing it could be the best years ahead of you. You both are older now and things are in a better picture and when there are the picture looks and feels better than it was before. I wish you the best and hope you get your dream back it sounds like you did. With hearing this it makes my hopes more powerfull for me as I pray and hope that we can do the same thing it would only make the LOVE stronger and EVERLASTING that is forsure.. Just don't F'en up again and talk and don't let ANYTHING or ANYONE between you two you are ONE AGAIN remember that....... Good luck and congrad's to both of you... If there in a relationship then they must not be happy so don't feel bad... Go for it and ENJOY LIFE AGAIN........ Just make sure that it is TRUE LOVE not LUST!!!!!!Take care, J
2006-08-05 22:10:56 · answer #1 · answered by viperman710 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
NO NO NO NO NO NO NO
So, he hooks up with you and his fourth love of his life comes along and he uses that as an excuse to cheat on you.
YOU are NOT thinking clearly. You really can't go back.
You are motivated by a memory from the past. Something in you thinks that this first love will meet all of your needs. But, at the expense of what?
You have very little respect for a realtionship and kids to even question getting back in this guys life.
2006-08-05 21:30:50 · answer #2 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, definitely. I reunited with my first love and immediately filed for a divorce. That was 16 years ago and I've never regretted it.
2006-08-05 21:24:24 · answer #3 · answered by HisChamp1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The relationship, yes. I think he loved me enough to trust that he loves me more than whoever he's with at the time.
The kids, I don't think so. But it's just because he already has two kids, who I loved, but their mom was so much drama. I don't think I could deal with another one. And I don't have kids so I don't want to have kids with a man who already has kids with two other woman.
2006-08-05 21:32:51 · answer #4 · answered by Erin M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No! First and formost of all, old wounds should not be reopened. Second of all, what we had was in the past and should be left there. Besides, the woman who was considered my first love died in a car accident. Respects!!
2006-08-05 21:26:19 · answer #5 · answered by davester1970 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she's with someone else definitely I wouldn't try, if she's divorced wouldn't be a problem. But thinking better I would ask to my self: Why did we separated for the 1st. time? May be if you have an answer for that one it will tells you what to do if you see you 1st. love in your path.
2006-08-05 21:29:16 · answer #6 · answered by Javy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that most people always remember their 'first love' and however tempting it might be I think that you should'nt try to go back to something....once it's gone,it's gone.If they were in a relationship too that's a definate no no!
2006-08-05 21:26:39 · answer #7 · answered by soapybubbles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol............well we did get back together for about 6 months and then the mother of his 3 kids said it was her and the kids or it was me and if he chose me he would never see the kids..........I sent him back because I didn't want to be the women that kept him away from his kids...........a month later I found out that I was prego and we weren't together............so now I have his sixth child and things didn't end up working between the mother of his 3 kids, he married another woman..........and I am engaged to be married.............so ya I would try it again.......hope it works out better for you then it did me............lol,,,I don't regret it..........
2006-08-05 21:33:53 · answer #8 · answered by kevie_gurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah.
2006-08-05 21:25:31 · answer #9 · answered by hearts99992000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope.. coz my first love has changed :)
2006-08-05 21:25:34 · answer #10 · answered by Arvind C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋