and I really want to lose my virginity soon to my girlfriend but she keeps being what they call a tease??? Should I tell her to stop being a tease?
She will make out with me for a few mins than pull away.... and she let me see her boobs once but won't let me touch them....how can I control myself around her....it's getting really hard!
2006-08-05 21:17:00 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
we've been going out for about a year and she has been doing this for 3 months now
2006-08-05 21:17:45 · update #1
It would be cool if she'd just stop doing stuff and saying yeah I am ready and than saying no im not and stuff...but she keeps playing with my thing sometimes...how do I tell her to stop doing that?? I've told her before
2006-08-05 21:29:51 · update #2
she can touch me there but i am not allowed to touch her there so I don't.
2006-08-05 21:30:25 · update #3
Listen up Jarod. I have a little piece of advice for you. SEX IS FOR MARRIED PEOPLE!!!! That's the problem with you horny teenagers today, you all want to jump up and have sex and you don't think about the consequences, such as AIDS, other STD's and pregnancy. However, there is no need to panic. As long as Rosie Palm and her five sisters are around, you will always have a sex partner. Peace.
2006-08-05 21:26:06 · answer #1 · answered by cave man 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
No matter how strong the urge is, you must overcome it. Your girlfriend doesn't sound the type to appreciate the gift you give by letting her have your virginity. And you're only 15! Focus on your studies and immerse yourself in other activities to stop thinking about sex and how much you want some. There are greater things in life; keep reminding yourself. Save your virginity for the person you will love eternally and spend a lifetime with. If your girlfriend is becoming unbearable, talk to her about it and ask her to stop teasing you so much.
2006-08-06 04:29:01 · answer #2 · answered by La 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her about it. Talk to her about how far u want to go, ur limits, expectations etc...The only way for this to work is to communicate w/her heart and soul. Try to see where she's coming from too. Really listen and see if the two of u can work something out.
And well in my opinion, ur just a little too young for sex. Wait at least a year ok cuz ur judgement skills will be much more enept.
Good Luck! :) and remember to talk!
2006-08-06 04:22:22 · answer #3 · answered by Viola Dragon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
come on!,your only 15 teen don't be in such a rush. have fun being a kid first before you go worrying about sex. so you guys mess around a little that's fine but go in the bathroom and milk the cow
and let it go, don't rush her into something shes not ready for and
weather you like it or not you are not ready for it either just because your willie gets a little bigger doesn't mean you are ready to be having sex. are you ready to get a job and support a baby if she gets pregnant? and one more thing stop getting advice from
a box and go talk to your parents or a real friend.
2006-08-06 04:34:52 · answer #4 · answered by andy m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your relationship is brewing nicely.Don't worry. She is testing her grounds to surrender totally before you.She is also testing whether you will be truthful to her by just shwoing and not allowing!!!If you were a flirt, you would have gone elsewhere by now, which has not happened. Soon the time will come for you to to be happy!!
Why are you so intent on loosing your virginity?There is no harm the poor visrginity lives with you for some more time!! Once gone its for ever!!!
2006-08-06 04:24:51 · answer #5 · answered by THE WORRIER 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont listen to Chuck, what an ***! Listen youre only fifteen, be patient, perhaps she doesnt wanna rush things, shes not ready for it. But YOU, youre testorone level is so high, that youre not even seeing it from her point of view. If you really love her then youll do the right thing and wait. If not, you are a jackass.
2006-08-06 04:22:52 · answer #6 · answered by Jenny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're a boy in puberty, of course you want to have sex, doesn't mean you should do it though. Talk to your girlfriend tell her she's being mean, because she is. If she keeps doing it, dump her. But you both need to first have a conversation about sex. If you can't talk about it openly and honestly, you're not ready to have it. Discuss birth control. Discuss condoms. Respect if she's not ready yet.
2006-08-06 04:22:54 · answer #7 · answered by Kanga_tush2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the teases are normally the women behind great men.
Who wants to know their woman had sex with 52 men before them. Teases are given a bad rap. There is much more to a woman than sex.
2006-08-06 04:21:08 · answer #8 · answered by AmplePressure 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i recommend that u let her go, girls that r a tease r jus a waste of time, shes jus playin wit u bro......ur young and i bet that theres a lot of other chicks at skool that r way better than her and and r actually worth the time.!! be patient ull find the rt chick to lose ur virginity. now if u really wanna be a playa and make ur girl pay for wat shes doin to u, make her seem like shes everything for u and that u love her,and all that beautiful things girls wanna hear.....and then f**k her and leave her...then forget bout her....that way shell learn.....!!
2006-08-06 04:46:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you really ready for a baby? Fifteen is young......if you aren't ready for the possibility of a baby, then keep your pants up! Even with birth control...nothing is a sure thing except abstinence.
2006-08-06 04:22:29 · answer #10 · answered by cornerstonefaith1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋