were both lost and not talking to each other..what happens now?

Question

this girl whom i liked so much, she liked me too.
I got things in a f^up manner between the both of us just because i told her my feelings abit too early. Now we both dont even talk to each other, not a word or gossip to spread to one another.Total blankness. She probably thinks im playing games with her or has moved on. I think the same way too but i having mixed emotions now. I dont even know how shes feeling about me right now.


do i still have a chance?

if i do have a chance, what should i do?

Answer 1

move on, really fast

Answer 2

Now is the time to learn how to work out problems in a relationship. Communication is essential to any good relationship. Learn it now, or suffer through many of these problem relationships. Maybe she's for you....maybe she's not for you....maybe there's some miscommunication on one or both your parts, but communicating so you know where you stand is important. What if you were married, and had kids, and there was a communication problem?......do you just move on?
Most relationships fail because one or both parties never learned to communicate with each other when there was a problem. Break through your fear, ask her what's going on.....and deal with the answer......You'll have to do it sooner or later, might as well get some experience while you're young and single.......

Answer 3

Try this. "Hey, I'm sorry about the other day. We've spent a lot of time together lately, I'm having some strong feelings towards you and I'm hoping those feelings are mutual. I haven't heard from you and now I'm wondering if I screwed up or something, is everything ok?"

If the answer is, "I'm sorry too, it was really wierd, I didn't know what to say, of course I like you,.." Then you can probably move on in one way or the other...

If the answer is a blank stare and a turned back, congradulate yourself that you took a chance, she didn't respond like a lady, and its time to move on to the next person.

-Rob

Answer 4

well if things were mutual I'm sure they would have blossomed by now. or maybee shes just being coy, Id try to open up with some light conversation, about a movie or something. dont press for answers if shes considering then it will reflect in the light conversation, look for eye contact, gittness, flirtation as good thing before you ask anymore, she might be going thought other things, and may need some space, you only have time, but dont let fear of rejection keep you from seeking the truth of the matter,

Answer 5

First, get a handle on your HONEST feelings, not your so called Hurt, Manley Pride. Question, 'Do You Really Care for the Young Lady?" If no, LEAVE HER ALONE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

If yes, with one small flower in hand, not white, ask her to have a Tea or coke, no alcohol, with you. Tell her that the issues is extremely important. Do this the way you did things when you first met her!

Ask, do not beg, ask softly, not loud, no matter what, no angry words! Should that fail, wait a few days, take small flowers and go to her home when she is not there. Ask her mother if you may speak with MRS. her mother name, tell her mother that you do not wish to speak with your friends older sister, you want to speak to her mother, give flowers, tell mother that you made the error, ask her to ask you friend if she could call you. Do not stay.

Remember all of the manners that your grandmother taught you!

Answer 6

bro simple
if u want something to happen just be a man and talk to her
coz as a girl she may be scared or shy and as normally misguided by few of her female friends
so clear the misunderstanding by going and talkin to her ok
it will workout ok
not to worry

Answer 7

maybe you still got a chance..if not then probably shes not ready for a real relationship...but if you try telling her how you feel about her maybe it would work out!!!!

Answer 8

yeah u do..but try makin some plans juss the 2 of u

Answer 9

You might if you say you meant what you said and do extra things for her.