omg! i had sex with my b/f for the first time and i couldent feel it! 3 1/2 hard! and hes 21 how can i make sex worth it? we went 4 times and i never got off once! it sucked what can he do? what should i do? GIRLS ONLY!!!
2006-08-05 20:22:06 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Come to my house.
2006-08-05 20:24:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
do Kegels. They strengthen your pbc (?) muscles down there so youre more sensitive. Its the same muscle that stops the flow of urine, so tighten and relax over and over for like 10 minutes couple times each day to make it better (you can do this while waiting at a red light) Also, make sure youre relaxed/aroused. It also could be that youre not mentally comfortable deep down with the process of sex, I don't know, could be one or a combo of those. good luck though!!!
2006-08-06 03:31:46 · answer #2 · answered by lfortier1000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had sex with a guy who had a small package, but he wasn't my boyfriend so it was easy to get out of that little situation. (no pun intended) But I feel that me having as much fun as him is important, so I would probably find a way to get out of the relationship. You can't survive on oral alone....
And as far as you doing the exercises to tighten up....that would only help if he was lacking in girth...which obviously he's lacking in length...so that would do no good.
Maybe try sex toys too?
2006-08-06 03:38:26 · answer #3 · answered by Kristina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
improvise-intro toys into the bedroom-for both of u-if u must, start the process of u having an orgasm b4 the 2 of u engage in sex (using a dildo b4 he enters u helps alot)
2006-08-06 03:27:24 · answer #4 · answered by momatendofrope 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if it was for the first time in your life,don't worry! It seams that for the first time,it isn't so good.Scuse me,but this subject is difficult.
2006-08-06 03:27:22 · answer #5 · answered by the b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You probably aren't turned on if he doesn't love you enough to marry you first. Either that or you're a nudist who doesn't feel pleasure easily enough.
2006-08-06 03:26:45 · answer #6 · answered by philhanan 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You will never be sexually satisfied. Might as well trade him in now rather than later.
2006-08-06 03:30:16 · answer #7 · answered by quikzip7 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to give you some oral pleasure, and if his fingers are long, that'll work too i guess....
2006-08-06 03:27:24 · answer #8 · answered by lola 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dnt know..it happened to me once...i ended leaving...but u shud try and make it work..try masterbating b4 he comes over
2006-08-06 03:26:22 · answer #9 · answered by missboricua14 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
invest in Duracell!
2006-08-06 03:25:19 · answer #10 · answered by bratchild 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋