need advice to forget 1ST LOVE//true//didnt work out?

Answer 1

I don't think it's a good idea to hop right into a new relationship. You could end up feeling things for the new person that are not really there due to unresolved feelings about your ex that are left over. Also you could screw up things with someone who might be really great for you if you meet them at a time that you are not over someone else. It's best to wait until you really feel ready. I suggest staying busy. Hang out with friends more, get some new hobbies, concentrate more on work or school. Also do not trying contacting them, looking at pictures of them too much, or going places that remind you of them. Eventually you will start to feel better. You will feel lonely and sad for a while, but staying as busy as possible helps. Also do nice things for yourself. Make YOURSELF happy. When you start feeling happier, that is when you can start looking for someone new. It is natural to think about them occasionally and miss them. Just don't dwell on it. You will find this starts to lessen a lot when you do finally meet someone new.

Answer 2

First loves are the hardest to get over. But in time it will make you a stronger person for whenever you are ready to move on into your next relationship. Find something to help you through it a new hobby, writing, anything that will help you get it off your chest. I say writing is the best.

Answer 3

Hi,
You will always remember your first love. In order for you to get by right now you have got to stay busy. Don't get in another relationship right now because you need to heal. Do something good and try focusing on your future. What do you want to do in your life? Set up goals and try to reach them. Time will go by so fast that you will realize that you are healing for the pain.

Answer 4

Give yourself a little time and then get back out there and up on the horse. The sooner you find a relationship the sooner you will get past the pain.