PLEASE ANSWER THIS =( i still feel heartbroken and really crummy 2 weeks after a really sad break up?

Question

the only music i can listen to is sad music any other music i just cant bring myself to listen to because i only can listen to music that fits my mood , thinking about her makes me want to cry because of what we had and what we may never have now , she means the world to me, us breaking up wasnt anything we could help, i've been doing a lot of really fun stuff lately, but my heart hasnt been with what we've been doing, shes the only thing i can think about, everything just felt so..... "right" when i was with her but now i cant be, i know i can be happy and move on again but i just dont see how right now, i just feel like i have a broken heart...... im not even positive what my question is, i guess just any advice oh what to do to feel better, or any comfort anybody may wanna give? i know it isnt the end of the world, but a broken heart feels almost as bad :'(

Answer 1

You know there's a distant light at the end of a very dark tunnel so you're moving in the right direction.

Listen to the music, write if you can, keep everything until you're ready to let go. Don't jump into another relationship without considering all of the repercussions.

Spend some time building up your own self esteem and confidence.

Hopefully you didn't ditch al of your other friends during your relationship, find those you can have some fun with and let loose. Pick up the pieces in 6 months.

Time is the great healer and it will take time.

Answer 2

i'm sorry to hear that ur going thru such a hard experience....breakups are the worst, and really take a toll on u mentally and physically, as well as emotionally.. my advice to u is BE PROUD of urself for having the ability to love, honor and cherish a woman so much. u admit that she was the world to you, and u were able to be a man who was in love, felt love, and gave love to someone unselfishly. that is AWESOME. be proud of it, and know that because u have experienced it, u can and will experience it again. if u know u can be the best boyfriend u can be, and ur proud that u can take care of a woman and make her happy, know that and let it fuel u to become STRONGER for ur next relationship! it's hard, but u should turn this into a positive for ur future instead of taking the easy way of turning into a negative, sad, depressed person. sometimes life gives u hard knocks, and to be able to let it help u learn and grow to be a stronger person is so worth it. i'm really proud to hear that u know u can move on eventually, it's just that the pain now is pretty fresh and unbearable. don't deny missing her, don't deny being sad about it....because you loved someone and cared about someone so much, u put her happiness above yours, and that is what u NEED and SHOULD do in a relationship. just cuz it didn't work here doens't mean ur a failure, or that u didnt' love her enough; it just means it's not the right time, or she's not the right person for u. it's not a reflection of ur faults...u should look and see how much strenghth and courage u had to love someone that way. keep it up, work on urself, become a better person, a better boyfriend, a better friend, a better son, be happy and confident and positive about urself! that way, when u meet a woman how is WORTHY of you, u will never feel rejected or sad or taken advantage of, cuz u have boundaries and expectations of what u want in a relationship. good luck, and dont give up... u are a great person, and u deserve to have someone who feels the same way about you.

Answer 3

Well about 2 years ago i had a huge break up my self and well i guess i can say i felt the same way... i was all sad and just felt like the weight of the world was on me trying to figure out what i could do to possibly get her back, but i figured that there could be nothing done to get her back...i didn't do anything to get her mad or any thing the break up was i guess needed so we could meet other ppl because we were both in high school at the time.... but what i did was surround myself with my closest friends which at the moment weren't like the closest ppl to me which i had few close friends because i neglected them during the relationship...so my friends and i hung out like every day and just had a good time of course i didn't forget about her i actually remember thinking about her every day for about a year and a half...but basically just try what i did...hang out with friends and "try" to get your mind off things

Answer 4

You need a change of scenery and music; music doesn't pick your mood, you pick the music so to get out of the funk, you're going to have to get yourself out. How old are you anyways?

If it is meant to be then the circumstances will alow it; fate cannot be forced or foretold, you just have to live.