my friend moved away like 4 years ago and now i moves to her area and we are going to see her tomorrow, and i'v seen pics of her and she beautiful as anything and i'm afraid she wont like me
what should i do?
2006-08-05 19:41:31 · 6 answers · asked by blah 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if she's really a good friend, she wont care about your looks
2006-08-05 19:44:18 · answer #1 · answered by dragonfly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Buy an inexpensive but simple and elegant bracelet, box and wrap it beautifully for easy opening and give it to her upon first meeting. When you first see her, block EVERYTHING else from your mind. Do not look at anything else but HER. Walk with dignity and a friendly smile straight to her, keeping your eyes locked on her eyes. Do not break eye contact. Be in command of yourself and keep that eye contact going no matter what. (Think about it: As long as you maintain eye contact with her, she won't notice anything or anyone else but you.) Walk proud and steady, like a leader of men. Move close to her, close enough so that, even though other people may be around, she knows that what you are about to say is for HER to hear. Keep looking her straight in the eye with all your friendship and warm feelings showing in your eyes, smile from your heart at the pleasure that you are feeling for getting to see this special person again, hold still and silent before her for a moment, look deep into her with all your spirit and decency, and then hand her the gift of the bracelet. Tell her to open it right then. Take it from her and place it on her wrist. Then, give her a soft hug as any good old friend would in happy greeting after a long separation. Savor the hug for just a moment. Then, take her aside, just for YOU to enjoy. Tell her that you are very glad to see her again. Ask her about HER. And, really listen. Compliment her on how nice she looks. Speak clearly, slowly and not too softly. If she is as nervous as you are ( and she will be), she will appreciate very much how you have relieved her of the stress of having to lead that first tense moment. The conversation will immediately become relaxed, natural and enjoyable. Make sure that you ask if she needs anything, such as a drink or a room to put her things down in and to freshen up. As soon as possible, steal her away from everyone else and take a walk. (Remember: That moment when you get to see her again for the first time... that moment is for and about YOU. She may or may not still like you. That does not matter. What matters is that you have genuine, good feelings about someone. There is NEVER anything wrong in showing genuine friendship. So, do not fear embarrassment. Believe in yourself, or, how else will SHE believe in you? No matter what happens after that, it is ok because YOU expressed yourself in a confident, honest and sincere way.) Good luck.
2006-08-06 04:00:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she was your friend before then i'm sure she'll love you. just be yourself and try not to let time make things akward between the two of you. DON'T HIT ON HER
2006-08-06 02:46:10 · answer #3 · answered by drtgirlz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
act cool and disinterested and chances are she will get intersted in you.if possible try to be some one your not .women are suckers for the macho bull S***
2006-08-06 02:48:08 · answer #4 · answered by bingo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just say nice things to her good luck i hope she likes u
2006-08-06 02:45:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be yourself
2006-08-06 02:45:06 · answer #6 · answered by MelC 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋