WHEN YOU THINK OF YOUR PAST LOVE, YOU MAY VIEW IT AS A FAILURE. BUT WHEN YOU FIND A NEW LOVE, YOU VIEW THE PAST AS A TEACHER. IN THE GAME OF LOVE, IT DOESN'T REALLY MATTER WHO WON OR LOST. WHAT IS IMPORTANT IS YOU KNOW WHEN TO HOLD ON AND WHEN TO LET GO! YOU KNOW YOU REALLY LOVE SOMEONE WHEN YOU WANT HIM OR HER TO BE HAPPY, EVEN IF HIS OR HER HAPPINESS MEANS THAT YOU'RE NOT PART OF IT. EVERYTHING HAPPENS FOR THE BEST. IF THE PERSON YOU LOVE DOESN'T LOVE YOU BACK, DON'T BE AFRAID TO LOVE SOMEONE ELSE AGAIN, FOR YOU'LL NEVER KNOW UNLESS YOU GIVE IT A TRY. YOU'LL NEVER LOVE A PERSON YOU LOVE UNLESS YOU RISK FOR LOVE. LOVE STRIVES IN HURTING. IF YOU DON'T GET HURT, YOU DON'T LEARN HOW TO LOVE. LOVE DOESN'T HURT ALL THE TIME. THOUGHT THE HURTING IS STILL THERE TO TEST YOU, TO HELP YOU GROW. DON'T FIND LOVE, LET LOVE FIND YOU. THAT'S WHY IT'S CALLED FALLING IN LOVE BECAUSE YOU DON'T FORCE YOURSELF TO FALL. YOU JUST FALL. YOU CANNOT FINISH A BOOK WITHOUT CLOSING ITS CHAPTERS. IF YOU WANT TO GO ON, THEN YOU HAVE TO LEAVE THE PAST AS YOU TURN THE PAGES. LOVE IS NOT DESTROYED BY A SINGLE FAILURE OR WON BY A SINGLE CARES. IT IS A LIFETIME VENTURE IN WHICH WE ARE ALWAYS LEARNING, DISCOVERING, AND GROWING. THE GREATEST IRONY OF LOVE IS LETTING GO WHEN YOU HAVE TO HOLD ON AND HOLDING ON WHEN YOU NEED TO LET GO. WE LOSE SOMEONE WE LOVE ONLY WHEN WE ARE DESTINED TO FIND SOMEONE ELSE WHO CAN LOVE US EVEN MORE THAN WE CAN LOVE OURSELVES. ON FALLING OUT OF LOVE, TAKE SOME TIME TO HEAL AND THEN GET BACK ON THE HORSE. BUT DON'T EVER MAKE THE SAME MISTAKE OF RIDING THE SAME ONE THAT THREW YOU THE FIRST TIME. TO LOVE IS TO RISK REJECTIONS, TO LIVE IS TO RISK DYING, TO HOPE IS TO RISK FAILURE. BUT RISK MUST BE TAKEN BECAUSE THE GREATEST HAZARD IN LIFE IS TO RISK NOTHING! TO LOVE IS TO RISK NOT TO BE LOVED IN RETURN. HOW TO DEFINE LOVE: FALL BUT DO NOT STUMBLE, BE CONSTANT BUT NOT TO PERSISTENT, SHARE AND NEVER BE UNFAIR, UNDERSTAND AND TRY NOT TO DEMAND, HURT BUT NEVER KEEP THE PAIN, LOVE IS LIKE A KNIFE. IT CAN STAB THE HEART OR IT CAN CARVE WONDERFUL IMAGES INTO THE SOUL THAT ALWAYS LAST FOR A LIFETIME. LOVE IS SUPPOSED TO BE THE MOST WONDERFUL FEELING. IT SHOULD INSPIRE YOU AND GIVE YOU JOY AND STRENGTH. BUT SOMETIMES THE THINGS THAT GIVE YOU JOY CAN ALSO HURT YOU IN THE END. LOVING PEOPLE MEANS GIVING THEM THE FREEDOM WHO THEY CHOOSE TO BE AND WHERE THEY CHOOSE TO BE. FOR ALL THE HEARTACHES AND THE TEARS, FOR GLOOMY DAYS AND FRUITLESS YEARS, YOU SHOULD GIVE THANKS, FOR YOU KNOW, THAT THEY WERE THE THINGS THAT HELPED YOU GROW. LOVING SOMEONE MEANS GIVING HIM OR HER THE FREEDOM TO FIND HIS OR HER WAY, WHETHER IT LEADS TOWARDS YOU OR AWAY FROM YOU. LOVE IS A PAINFUL RISK TO TAKE BUT THE RISK MUST BE TAKEN NO MATTER HOW SCARY OF PAINFUL, FOR ONLY THEN WILL YOU EXPERIENCE THE FULLNESS OF HUMANITY AND THAT IS LOVE. ONLY LOVE CAN MAKE YOU CRY AND ONLY LOVE KNOWS WHY. IF YOU'RE NOT READY TO CRY, IF YOU'RE NOT READY TO TAKE THE RISK, IF YOU'RE NOT READY TO FEEL THE PAIN, THEN YOU'RE NOT READY TO FALL IN LOVE. THERE WAS A TIME IN OUR LIVES WHEN WE BECAME AFRAID TO FALL IN LOVE BECAUSE EVERY TIME WE DO, WE GET HURT. THEN I FIGURED THAT'S WHY IT'S CALLED FALLING IN LOVE. WHEN YOU DECIDE TO LOVE, ALLOW IT TO GROW. WHEN YOU PROMISE TO LOVE, REFUSE TO LET IT DIE!
~IN LOVE, NEVER PUT YOURSELF ON A SITUATION WHERE YOU'RE NOT SURE WHERE YOU STAND IN HIS OR HER LIFE, NEVER ASSUME, NEVER EXPECT, SO THAT IF HE OR SHE CHOOSES TO DROP YOU. YOU'LL HAVE ENOUGH STRENGTH TO MOVE ON.~
2006-08-05 19:39:46
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answered by aznflippgurl 5
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I agree with Super Rach. Love is finding your best friend and lover in one. I'm lucky to have found my husband who is both of those things. I can trust him, love him, and yell at him when I need to let out my frustrations and know that he'll be there for me. I knew I wanted to spend the rest of my life with him early on in our relationship and it's already been 9 1/2 years (4 years of marriage). It's an indescribable remarkable feeling that makes you feel so wonderful and does not bring you down. You don't have any doubts when it's true love. Good luck!
2006-08-05 19:41:59
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answered by Precious 7
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love is hard to explain. You just know when your in love. You get that vibe from your soul mate when you find that special someone! Love is well i get butterflys and small chills and i always smile when i see my hubby.. You feel so comfortable around them with anything. You can talk to them, when you have sex its called love making as you generally have feelings for them. You always wana be close and you feel safe when your with this person!
thats my definition
2006-08-05 19:41:10
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answered by Anonymous
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Love is someone who respects you, likes you for who you are, and tolerates you even at your worst. One of the best parts is when your heart jumps up in your throat. A best friend and a lover; I am lucky to have found mine. Yours is out there too.
2006-08-05 19:38:37
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answered by Super Rach 3
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love is hard to explain but easy to feel its when your head over heels over the other person you constantly want the best for each othe and will do anything to make it happen you'll let the other person be who ever they want to be and still love every little piece of them! sorry its hard to explain unless your in it or have been through it!
2006-08-05 19:40:43
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answered by Anonymous
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Love is feeling like you couldn't imagine yourself with anyone else. They give you everything you need while you give them everything in return. When you are with them nothing else seems to matter; you don't even notice anyone else. Sex is awesome. You will do anything for them. They love you no matter what.
2006-08-05 19:46:41
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answered by Anonymous
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Love means deep affection or fondness
2006-08-05 19:44:12
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answered by yulia_jovovich 2
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Love is letting the person do what she/he wants to do, no matter how much it really hurts you.
2006-08-05 19:38:20
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answered by SweetBrunette 5
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Love is a commitment, crush is merely to admire... So don't confuse the two!!!!
2006-08-05 19:49:01
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answered by Snowflake 2
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love is something that i cant trust....and believe me it doesnt exist these days
2006-08-05 19:38:58
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answered by raz 2
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