Alrite All you Scheming ladies this sister needs your help!!?

Question

Damn it for always being about a guy.

Nyways.There is this guy I am in love with.I havent confessed to him..But I have a feeling he knows.
I also have a feeling that he has a thing for me...but for some reason in his God damn head he is not doing anything about it...except making my life a living hell...
He keeps flirting and droping hints.and the last he did was indirectly ask me out for lunch.and how he asked was done like this..."so tell me something i'm totally broke...would you be kind as to invite me out to lunch"..i told him sure why not in a joking way...
Today he said that he is all shaved up and looking good so we could go together.
The thing is i dont want to say yes and seem too eager...and I dont want to say no and miss out on this.
But mainly i'm sick and tired of his games..its been months since he's been fooling around with me like this.
and now its PAY BACK time.
I want him to feel confused and miserable just like he's been making me..
So ny great ideas!!!

Answer 1

Ok. I went through something similar. Only difference was we were/are best friends. He moved out here from Kali to "get his life together". We ended up messing around and though we both said no about a relationship, I fell in love with him. He had told me a few times when he was all ****** up, how he felt. The next day...not a word. I finally broke and told him how I felt. He told me the 2 things I needed he couldnt give me. Love and Affection. I knew how he felt but he just kept saying he wasnt over his ex yadayadayada. SOOO...I went to the bar with some friends to watch one of the girls in a karaoke competition. I ended up meeting someone there. We hit it off INSTANTLY. It was seriously, Amazing. Well we started dating. He didnt take it very well at all!! Especially since this person just happened to be female. He professed his love and everything. It was too late inmy mind. I had already pushed everything away, because of what he kept telling me. So her and I dated exclusively for 2 1/2 mos. I fell for her hard and fast. I will never feel that way again. She moved to Kali and we decided to stay friends. Now, Me and him are together. He knows now that he shouldn't have played with my emotions. And he had nobody to blame but himself. I say...if he's playing with your emotions, find someone that wont. Because with men..."They never realize what they've got till its gone."

Answer 2

Scheming is not the correct way to go about this. You said he indirectly asked you out before. He throwing the proverbial "ball" in your corner and waiting to see what your going to do with it.
If another opportunity such as the indirect invite comes along, just look him square in the eye and say " Are you asking me out?'
If he continues to play.........walk away.

Answer 3

nicely it is rather romantic!! no humorous tale it is!! besides to get returned to the subject. i don't think of you could desire to easily tell her which you're infactuated along with her it may be slightly creepy for her. i could in basic terms walk as much as her and say ya understand i've got been on your classification for a year and that i don't think of we've ever met i'm ______!! could you desire to decide for coffee or regardless of it is you adult males desire to do! Then ease on in one step at a time. oh and yet another factor end have intercourse with random ladies fantasizing approximately this one its strange and incorrect in a brilliant sort of techniques.

Answer 4

i think u should take the initiative and ask him out. don't joke about it, just tell him how you feel.

Answer 5

play his games right back to him. People HATE it when they have it turned on themselves.

Answer 6

well if u think that he knows already then might as well have him hear it for real....tell him how u feel

Answer 7

go with da flow

Answer 8

go with other guy n make him feel jealous.