The girl that I liked told me to meet her at school because she have something very important to tell. At this point we are just friends and I already told her how i felt about her. When I got there she is on the phone with a friend so I thought she'll get off the phone in a minute to talk to me. She was the phone for about an hour or so. I asked her what did she want to talk about. She said that she doesn't have time anymore because she was meeting up with the guy she liked for a date. In the past this guy keep on canceling dates just to go with his friends to hang out. I ask what time her date starts she said in 10 minutes. I told her she still have to talk to me but she said she gotta go. I followed keep on telling she still have time before the date. She then went to my friends to say goodbye. Of course, she's saying sorry. I called her the day after what happened she said she was "busy," I also ask what she wanted to talk to me about, she said that you could ask if I was busy.
2006-08-05 19:03:31 · 3 answers · asked by Berties 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Now, I have decide not be friends with her anymore because the action that she did was hurtful and it made me feel that I wasn't important to her at all.
2006-08-05 19:09:26 · update #1
no u didn't react too fast... she did something, and u reacted. regardless of it if was "right" or "wrong", if she was ur true friends she would care about ur feelings and treated u w/ some kind of respect. she should have validated and addressed ur feelings, even if she doesn't understand why.
the problem in this situation, is that were continuing to be her friend, even tho u had feelings for her. guys and girls have very hard time being "just friends", esp when there are feelings involved. i know u were probably willing to be her friend as long as she wanted to, but ur not being fair to urself. and it means ur not really her "friend", because u are being nice to her cuz u like her, not because u are just her friend. =T. it's hard, but i think ur decision is the best thing to do for ur heart. next time she talks to u, tell her it's either u go on a date or that's it; there's no need to "pretend" u want to be friends again, cuz it's a lie. u wouldn't have been this hurt, in fact u would've been happy for her that she got a date w/ the guy she had feelings for. therefore, u are not in it for the friendship, u want more. if she's not willing to accept that, move on; she's only going to end up using u cuz u are nicer to her due to feelings, not because u are a true friend.
2006-08-05 19:15:11 · answer #1 · answered by sasmallworld 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Good idea, there's no WAY this girl is ever going to like you. Plus, your too good for her, you waited an hour while she talked on the phone. WOW! You'll find someone else, good luck!
2006-08-06 02:11:57 · answer #2 · answered by Summerbaby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU NEED TO START REACT TO THIS, YOU NEED TO
FIND A NEW FRIEND. SHE NOT ONE, IF SHE CANT RESPECT YOU THEN TIME TO MOVE ON, YOU ARE
JUST AS IMP[ORTANT WITH YOUR DAY AS SHE IS WITH
HER, AND I WOULD LET HER KNOW THIS. SORRY CANT
CUT IT NO MORE, TIME TO GET HER STRAIGHT.
2006-08-06 02:11:22 · answer #3 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋