What do u do if ur dad wants to divorce ur step mom bcuz u guys are always arguing do u let him or try to stop him?plz help
2006-08-05 19:01:28 · 15 answers · asked by **Sam**[[loves someone special]] 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
ask ur dad if he really divorcing ur step mum becoz of u. sometimes adults like put the balme on the childrens. If he really loves ur step mum and becoz of u he's divorcing her..this is not fair at all honey. ur dad need to be happy. he's a human too. 3 of u should sit down and talk over it. Ask ur stpe mum wat both of u can do to overcome the problem. No harm in listening to elder peoples. trust me. act now before its too late...ur dad might hate u the rest of his life
2006-08-05 19:08:31 · answer #1 · answered by frozen 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Is your dad always arguing with your step mom, then they're probably making the right decision. If YOU'RE always arguing with your step mom, stop it right now....I have a good friend whose dad a woman because his daughter and her daughters didn't get along at all. He never remarried, and loneliness is all it's cracked up to be. Be a good kid, help your dad and his wife out, whatever problems you have with her try to work out. Don't resent her for "taking over" your mom's spot, no one can do that, but she can add something to your life if you'll let her.
2006-08-06 02:44:17 · answer #2 · answered by basketcase88 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you mean you and step mom are arguing? If so, quit. Your dad deserves happiness. But also remember, there is always more going on than you know. Maybe there are other troubles. You need to sit down with your dad and talk about it . BE HONEST WITH HIM
2006-08-06 02:06:43 · answer #3 · answered by {Lisa} 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds as though you are arguing with your stepmom.
If this is the case, you should consider your dad's feelings.
If he didn't love her, he likely would not have married her.
Go to your stepmom and apologize. Try to be a little more sensitive to how hard it was for her to step into this position in the first place. Be less argumentative, allow yourself to agree to disagree, but support her as your father's wife. She at least deserves that.
2006-08-06 02:09:27 · answer #4 · answered by Cookie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him gently how you feel but be open to his point of view. He may have a good reason. If the conversation goes well you might ask him if he's willing to go to counseling with her. Sometimes couples just need an unbiased 3rd party to help them sort things out.
2006-08-06 02:07:31 · answer #5 · answered by shominyyuspa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Baby girl, if 2 people want to divorce there's nothing you can do. Even if you feel there is some part concerning you that is to blame. It's hard but you can never blame yourself.
2006-08-06 04:07:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may not be because of the arguing could be more things than you know your dad is a grown man he can make his own decisions ..
2006-08-06 02:08:03 · answer #7 · answered by «~Mouse«~~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Divorce should be the absolute last option. Always!
Do whatever you can to get them into counseling or try and help them work out their problems :)
2006-08-06 02:06:48 · answer #8 · answered by kenny_the_bomb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should respect your Dad's decision. You should not intervene because it's not your business, adults know what they're doing so just support whatever your Dad wants to do..
2006-08-06 02:07:31 · answer #9 · answered by yodge_123 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my dad and step mom divorced because of problems between my brother and her. you should probably just stay out of it
2006-08-06 02:07:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋