They are very nice but I don't know what bad happened today that my father has taken such a drastic decision.
2006-08-05 18:34:56 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
What ever u do plz dont do what i did. and if u want to know what i did just read my account name.
2006-08-05 18:38:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your question is "what to do"? Let it go... parents are like that quite some... It's their marriage and no matter what you do... the decision is in him. It may hurts but you have to bear with it. Such is life and this is part of growing up. I was quite some like you a few years ago until now... that I'm 20... I understood that It's their issue and i cannot interfere.
2006-08-06 01:38:41 · answer #2 · answered by Royal Flush 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must respect their decision and just witness whatever is going on without being bias about it! For all you know it might not turn out as bad. Be strong and let them feel you are not in a way of what ever they need to decide. I hope you are not too young.
2006-08-06 01:43:05 · answer #3 · answered by ~Raju~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get both of them in same room and ask them to level with you and communicate to you what is going on so you are not left in the dark guessing and worrying.
Sometimes couples separate, it doesn't always mean they will get divorced. They may need to see a marriage counselor. You can suggest this, or to see their priest or minister.
You need to be told what is going on though, because it is hard to be in a family and you are old enough that this should be discussed with you.
2006-08-06 01:40:12 · answer #4 · answered by Ivy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most of the time, parents say things they really don't mean. Many things are said in the heat of the moment. I'd give it a few days and let everyone cool down. I'd be willing to bet that things will get back to normal.
2006-08-06 01:38:07 · answer #5 · answered by wa1tjb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to hear about it. But let the adults work on their marriage... perhaps your Dad needs some space. You might be part of the family, but you are NOT part of a marriage... that's between the husband and the wife.
2006-08-06 01:41:12 · answer #6 · answered by Mike S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey I agree with Ivy
the only thing i can add is this don't put the blame on you.
things always have a way of working out for the best
take care and keep us posted.
2006-08-06 01:46:46 · answer #7 · answered by ladyjane 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am being straightforward but what i think is that he hmight hav got sum reason which he cant fulfill by staying with mom and hence he is taking this tiff a weapon to take action 4 the decision which he had made long back i suppose.plz dont take me wrong but i am telling from experience
2006-08-06 01:56:44 · answer #8 · answered by vish 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
parents fighting and decided to separate happens anywhere in the world. i had a bestfriend that her parents separated. its up to you if you'll do something about it. if you dont want your parents to separate well do something because if they know that their daughter cares about their relationship as husband and wife and as a whole family they'll do the right thing that will be good for their children =) but if they really want to separate and you cant talk it out with them just stay strong maybe your dad's not the one for you mom.. unexpected things always happen just be ready for it and good luck, god bless!
2006-08-06 01:48:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be patient and let your parents work it out. You could try praying, then talking to your Dad. Good Luck!
2006-08-06 01:54:54 · answer #10 · answered by wingnutter69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not knowing your age is a handicap-- but , generally--I f this seems serious,-Start now, to talk to people about it. Safe people-- & get all the help you can get. In case you need it--& you might.
2006-08-06 02:09:43 · answer #11 · answered by c.raymero 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋