First, I need to mention that this is a long-distance relationship. She lives in Ontario while I'm in Missouri. We talk to each other mostly via msn and sometimes the phone. For as long as I've known her, she hasn't really been one to go out a lot. She's pretty shy, doesn't have a lot of close friends. Recently though, she's been staying pretty busy with "some people" as she likes to refer to them. I have no problem whatsoever with her going out and having a good time. I trust her completely. The problem is that whenever she's hanging out with other people, or even when she's talking to other people online, it's like I'm not even there. Haha, I guess techinally I'm not there, but she's just very short with me. I get little more than an "okay" when I try to tell her something. She totally blows me off. It's like I'm not her boyfriend anymore when she has other people to talk to. So is this normal behaviour? Am I just overreacting?
2006-08-05 18:24:07 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You're not overreacting, my friend. I feel your lady is tired of a long-distance relationship... it's hard to connect, you know? Wouldn't you really rather have someone nearby to go out with and have some fun. The phone calls, etc., only go so far... sorry to tell you this, but she's breaking it off without wanting to hurt your feelings.
2006-08-05 18:28:29 · answer #1 · answered by Mike S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi!!
i don't know what kind of reaction shall i have for such a thing!! but i'm not happy at all to hear that!!
anyway my friend! that's i think more or less normal.
but, u "as a man" should do SOMETHING.
i think that u should go and visit her talk to her face to face and see how she feels!!
maybe she thinks u r not ok with her,don't think it's possible?
maybe she thinks u have given her the cold shoulder.
but u my Friend r so nice!!so nice!! and i believe u don't deserve such a thing....
but to be in the safe side and to make things clear at least to ur self, there's only one way to solve this misunderstanding,dude u should go and see ur girlfriend before everytrhing breaks down!
don't u think i'm right? u should take ur time, talk, communicate and don't stay still and ask ur self questions that have no answer!!
good luck and i wish u all the best,because u deserve all the best!!
Kicksy!
2006-08-05 18:46:28 · answer #2 · answered by Musty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in case you been mutually for years, i do no longer think of money is the subject, as much as him being so secretive approximately what that's for. i does no longer have provide the money decrease than those circumstances the two..and that i truthfully does no longer now for his reaction. If he does not get ahold of you interior of three days, he's no longer there for you the two. evaluate him MIA, and enable that be somebody else's concern.
2016-10-01 12:52:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it goes more than a few days you have been dumped. Sorry it happens so move on meet a new one or just ignore her if she loves you she will miss you and call you.
2006-08-05 18:35:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i don't think that ur overreacting....where at in Missouri? IM me if u wanna chat.....
2006-08-05 18:30:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's dating someone else, and you are not reading the signs.
2006-08-05 18:30:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget her she is gonna dump you.
2006-08-05 19:31:39 · answer #7 · answered by Ðøwñ tø Ëã®th 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is more than likly cheating on you but know i am not trying to hurt you.
2006-08-05 18:42:28 · answer #8 · answered by Big Mama 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude mve closer and shell b all over you i guarantee it
2006-08-05 18:29:30 · answer #9 · answered by lemonada dada 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are just over-reacting
2006-08-05 18:28:11 · answer #10 · answered by Princess illusion 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋