Ok so this is kinda a long story but here it goes I left my daughter's dad to pursue a relationship with my high school love and my high school love and I were seeing each other for a while well suddenly he decided he didn't want to see me anymore, so we haven't seen or heard from each other in 5 months and during this time my daughter's father and I have reconciled and are back together well my high school love shows up at my door tonight and my boyfriend is here and my hs love wants to say goodbye to me because his job is taking him to Kansas for a while. I told him that I was surprised that he even came to say goodbye, he said that it is because I was on his list of people to say goodbye to. Why after not talking for so long did he decide to come and say goodbye to me?
2006-08-05 18:11:49 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just so that you all know he had no part of me leaving my daughter's father for him!! He also had no idea that my and my daughter's dad were back together, and I am not easy!! I will tell you that right now I don't give it up for at least 3 months!
2006-08-05 18:20:49 · update #1
He would never do anything to wreck my relationship because we have spoken with each other on several occasions when I had a boyfriend and he has never done this before!
2006-08-05 18:24:32 · update #2
I must have been the last person he came to say goodbye too because it was 10:30 at night and he wanted to come in.
2006-08-05 18:35:49 · update #3
He has issues..it does not concern you. Be grateful that the father of your child still wants you back after you left him. Move on. Your HS ex is just a Sadist and likes to play mind games.
2006-08-05 18:16:35 · answer #1 · answered by wittlewabbit 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't matter why he decided to come around. All that matters is what you decide to do about it. You have a daughter, so quit screwing around and stick by what is best for her.
Making her father jealous by maintaining contact with the guy you left him for is not fair to anyone. Tell the high school love that you've grown up, and you have a family that matters more than his need to drop in and out of your life.
Like the man said, "We're never safe from the truth, but in the truth we can survive." Peace.
2006-08-06 01:17:00 · answer #2 · answered by Johnny Tezca 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He seems a gentleman and since he said to you like yours name was on his list of people to say goodbye to...so naturally he was at your door certainly not exclusively for you...as was to say byes to others too. In short, as far as your family life is concerned, it is advisable that you just let him go away with his future and since you are living happily with your daughter's dad, it is good thing to shut the matter in singing tone.
2006-08-06 01:26:39 · answer #3 · answered by indraraj22 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is insecure and wants affirmation from you. He also has no respect for you. If he did he would not have shown up at your place with your bf around, or at all. He has no life other than the women he knows, and he would not hesitate to destroy anything you and your bf have going on so he can get a quick fix, and then leave.
2006-08-06 01:18:46 · answer #4 · answered by Cattlemanbob 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like your hs love can't stand to see you in a happy relationship and is out to cause a bit of trouble before he leaves.If I was in your position I would tell your hs love to dissapear as you are happy where you are and you don't want to risk it all by having him around.
2006-08-06 01:20:44 · answer #5 · answered by flying_eagle_72 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because he's confused, and kind of a jerk. Ditch him, and stay with the guy who's been loyal to you.
I know the power of a first love -- we all do. But if he's not good for you, forget him.
2006-08-06 01:18:11 · answer #6 · answered by robinwritergal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your so fuc* up do not do it if you do your a dumb i cant tell you what i think dont do it dont do it dont do it if you do think me latter when your siting alone crying think of me then not now but then hope you get what im saying but if you dont want to be with old man leave him but donot go back with your ole bf at all why do you need to ask anyone you know what the answer is is is is is is is is is is ius is is u need love your not getting i know i have did what your doing befor^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ jerry^^^^^^^^^^^^^^help hope i did think of it
2006-08-06 01:25:53 · answer #7 · answered by do it good 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may not have been easy at first but he thinks you are now! Blow the joker off. He is bad news.
2006-08-07 12:24:41 · answer #8 · answered by Texas Cowboy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys can smell an easy woman, and he enjoys seeing couples part ways,, slam the door in his face
2006-08-06 01:16:29 · answer #9 · answered by kewl69charger 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes sounds dispirit...
2006-08-06 01:16:56 · answer #10 · answered by Savage 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋