There's this guy on my swim team who's two years older than me. I'm a freshman and he's a junior. He's offered me rides many times and stayed with me while I was waiting for my ride once although my coach was still there waiting with me also. Once at a swim meet, he kept bringing up guys' who are on the team and asking if I liked any one of them. I don't know him that well, but he's really nice to pretty much everyone on the team. He gives me compliments about alot of things but recently he hasn't been talking to me or saying hi. If he doesn't talk to me, I won't talk to him and I'm really sure he doesn't know I'm interested in anyway. What do I do? I really like him, I'm just really shy around him.
2006-08-05 18:03:48 · 5 answers · asked by Olivia 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You need to start talking to him to find out if he likes you. If he asked you all that and showed you that much attention, he must have liked you at some point. But you have to talk to him! You're shy? Everyone thinks they're shy at some point! And if you did not pay him more attention than you say, you may have discouraged him from pursuing a relationship with you any further if he did like you to begin with. Good luck!
2006-08-05 18:19:13 · answer #1 · answered by anonymous 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes the direct approach is best, just ask. But if that seems too bold for your liking, look for the following signs. Pay attention to your conversations with the person in question.
1) Does this person show a special interest in having a conversation with you and, once started, make an effort to keep that conversation going?
2) Has this person taken a sudden interest in your life and hobbies? This is a sure sign that he or she is interested in something.
3) Other elements of body language include frequent eye contact, holding your gaze and looking down before looking away.
4) Does the person you're wondering about just plain smile at you a lot?
Just remember, take each moment like it will be the last. This I feel will be a good start for you in knowing. Good Luck!!!!!!!
2006-08-06 20:18:18 · answer #2 · answered by Wolfie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By what you say it looks like he might like you. But he's a bit childish. Just wait and see if he gets enough courage to ask you out. IF he doesn't - he's not man enough for you anyway.
2006-08-06 01:09:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
TALK TO HIM!! the worst thing that can happen is that he'll say that he's not interested!! try talking to him..
2006-08-06 01:12:07 · answer #4 · answered by Maria18 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to make him still like you ,you have to show him that you like him. no ones going to wait forever and he probally feels like you dont like him so he might have given up
2006-08-06 01:08:49 · answer #5 · answered by thechase500 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋