What should I do?Please answer ASAP?

Question

It seems as though one of my friends is coming on to my boyfriend she be hitting him, she was barely sitting on his lapp and making facial gestures at him should I continue to talk to her or stop before something I don't want to happen go down

Answer 1

You'd better talk to her and tell her about how you feel whenever she does those things to your bf. Tell her honestly that you don't like her doing that at all but you should talk to her not in an angry manner but in a way that she will feel that you pour out your feelings to her because after all friends should be honest with one another.

You may even ask her if she is interested in your bf even in a joking manner, and if ever she is, ask her if there was a time that your bf also insinuated to her that he also likes her. With that, you may even know some things that you've never been aware of before about him and your friend.

If she still continues doing those things despite your talking to her about it, you may as well talk to your bf about it and tell him that you don't like his being too close to your friend. If he says that that means nothing to him, then tell him that to you it matters a lot. And if by chance you feel that somehow he also has a liking for your friend, ask him if he wants to continue your relationship or just call it off so that he can court your friend without seemingly being unfaithful to you.

You know, men by natue easily give in to flirts because by nature also they are weak to resist temptations. But if your bf loves you so much, despite that fact, he should avoid hurting you by keeping distance from that girl with or without you around. If he is too close to her, your friend may take that as a liking for her by your man and if she is in fact also attracted to him, she may even do more flirting acts to get him from you.

Remember that you should only treasure your friendship with your friend if she respects your feelings about your bf. If she does not, better count her out as one of your friends because you don't deserve her.

Answer 2

First off - he should not let her get close - he should also tell her to lay off and that that is inappropriate . It is touchy but if you know that is what she is up to- tell her privately but around your family (while they are home or something) - that you feel uncomfortable with the way she is flirting with your boyfriend or better yet don't accuse her just say I feel like you are flirting with him when you do this, this, this, and this - give specific examples and try not to point blame too much - keep it kind of smooth without too much you are doing this and that and you better not etc.
He should tell her though cause then she would really get it - from you she may think u are jealous, etc even though she is the one that probably is since she is apparently trying to get your guy's attention- some girls do this crap - I don't know why. Friends boyfriends are off limits - even after the break up - it is just the international rule of women everywhere i think. -
If you don't think talking to her will make it go away or even make it worse, then she is no friend - you should be able to trust your friends alone with your guy - for hours even so if you can't even trust her while you are in the room, she doesn't sound like too much of a friend to me. Good luck - you deserve better friends - since friendship is based partly on trust.

Answer 3

Honey, why in the world do you feel like YOU have to be the one to say something to her. What about that boyfriend of yours? Is he soaking up the extra attention he's getting? What does that say to you if he is? When your alone, talk it over with him. See what is really going down inside him with this added attention. Then you will know where you stand. AND, if he gives you no reason to be worried.......then he should be the one to set your so called girl friend straight. If it comes from him, she will get the better picture of where your relationship stands. If just you tell her, she will sense your insecurity and wonder if she has a chance with him after all. Best to let him prove himself to you by setting her straight and laying boundaries down where she is concerned. Hope this helps.

Answer 4

Just ask her what is going on. If she does like your boyfriend, then I would stop talking to her for a while. Or, there is always the possibility that she is trying to make you jealous and she really doesn't consider you a friend.

Answer 5

Talk to her and tell her that if she's going to flirt with your boyfriend then you dont wanna be friends with her anymore. Then talk to your boyfriend and tell him that the next time she does that, he just have to say he's not interested and if she keeps doing that, then he will have to tell you, to stay away from her:)

Answer 6

tell her that you dont like the way shes acting torwads him but say in a way that wont hurt her fellings because no man is worth loosing a friend. men come and go friends stay forever.

Answer 7

Yes i believe you should keep talking to her but confront her first about it to let her know you know her motive. and each time you are with your boy friend or you want to go and see him avoid going with her, give a distance when it comes to you and your boyfriend.

Answer 8

Talk to her and Tell her to stop it.

Also, how is he reacting to the situation. Is he liking it, or not. Why has he not stopped her, if he likes you.

If he wants her, you really do not have any options, except to move on.

Answer 9

u need to talk to her asap-explain calmly how her actions make u feel and why then do the same w/ your bf-if neither of them respect your feelings and continue w/ such behavior i suggest getting rid of both of them

Answer 10

Talk to her
a true Friend doesnot try to take you Man
watch your