This girl I dated moved almost out of the country after I cheated on her i really havent heard from her in years and now she has made contact and has been wanting a lot what should I do?
2006-08-05 17:58:42 · 12 answers · asked by themaverick79 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are commited to your wife. There will be many times over the years where that grass may look greener on the other side. It NEVER is. Love is a choice, not a feeling. As part of the commitment of marriage, you make the choice to love your wife and stick it out with her no matter what. Especially during the times when you may not want to. Stop contact with the ex. Your responsiblilty is to your wife.
2006-08-05 18:31:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think about the way you felt when you lost your girlfriend and think about how your girlfriend felt when you cheated on her. Now that you have moved on the ex comes back. It's way too late. You have a wife. She's your priority. Do you want her to be hurt as well? If you married her, you must love her. So do the right thing. This ex could be jealous and could be trying to break you up.
2006-08-05 18:23:19 · answer #2 · answered by Renee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oy...thats hard buddy. Well I'm going to defend your wife here. If you love your wife you should respect her and keep your distance from the ex. If you think...and may be still in love with your ex..then separate from your wife. No one deserves to be cheated on...Please think about it
2006-08-05 18:04:43 · answer #3 · answered by Too nice for my own good 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you stay with your wife because you and her are together and if u felt pain when the other girl left then best thing to do is avoid feeling that pain again
2006-08-05 18:03:28 · answer #4 · answered by thechase500 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's trying to get revenge on your stupid.
She wants to break up your relationship with your wife, then she's gone. Haven't you heard of this before.
2006-08-05 18:03:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You stay with your wife - WHACK off your penis and send that "To the Girl you Love". There problem solved. I hope they both dump your sorry ***.
2006-08-05 18:04:09 · answer #6 · answered by doc 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are married i am assuming a happy marriage or u wouldn't be questioning it just tell her u moved on with your life and shes making u uncomfortable cooming around
2006-08-05 18:10:39 · answer #7 · answered by heather f 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds to me that your ex girlfriend did the right thing and if she stays smart, she'll avoid u like the plague!
2006-08-05 18:06:35 · answer #8 · answered by ♥ Haylow ♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU ARE MARRIED. Leave your wife or leave it alone. Those should be your only options.
2006-08-05 18:12:27 · answer #9 · answered by munkees81 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHY ARE YOU IN CONTACT WITH YOUR EX, WHEN YOU
ARE MARRIED. THAT THE FIRST MISTAKE, YOU NEED
TO LET HER GO ON HER WAY, AND BE TRUE TO YOUR
WIFE, SHE IS A PROBLEM BECAUSE YOU LET HER BE
ONE.
2006-08-05 18:06:42 · answer #10 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋