canser!!!!!!!!!!!!!!?

Question

My Uncal Timmothy M. Morse Just Died @ the age of 42 On august 5 2006 @ 11:55 am of canser my mom is becoming histarical she wont stop cring and my 4 lil cosons (his daughters ) dont know yet because thair mom wont tell them

i was wondering if i should tell my cosons or not

Answer 1

No, you need to let their mom tell them. Your aunt will tell them soon enough, this just happened this morning. I'd imagine she'll tell them soon enough. They need to hear this from their mom, not you. I'm so sorry for your loss.

Answer 2

I don't know what your question is, but I'm very sorry for the loss of your uncle. Cancer is a word I don't think children should ever have to hear, but it's a sad fact of life. I know you hurt too, but be patient with your mom, honey. This is a time when a family has to stick together and be supportive. Take care of each other.

Answer 3

I'm sorry for what you and your family are going through. It is hard to lose a loved one I know. Your mom will pull it together sooner or later. The way she is feeling is absolutely normal. Just be there for her, let her know how much you love her. I lost one of my brothers in 2004, and that pain is still with me today. But life must and does go on. Time will help heal her pain. Sooner or later your lil cousins mom will tell them, she is probably just trying to deal with his loss herself right now, and maybe she wants to be calm when she tells them. I'm so sorry for your loss. Unfortunately, death is a part of the process of life for all of us. Just please understand that he is in a better place, and he is no longer in pain. I hope you and your family can find some comfort within eachother. Think of all the good times spent with him rather than his struggle with his illness and hopefully that will help you get through this.

Answer 4

I'm sorry to hear that. Maybe your Aunt is having too difficult of a time right now dealing with her own grief and cannot deal with her children's grief right now. I bet that you would be a huge help to her if you would take the kids to the park or watch them over at your house for awhile. She needs to grieve before she can help her children. Good luck, God bless.

Answer 5

My sister went nuts when my daddy died. We took her to the ER and doctors gave her relaxing/sleeping meds. It was hard the first weeks but you will eventually remember the good times spent with the deceased person.

Answer 6

I'm very sorry, but you don't seem to have a question. Not to mention that you just gave out alot of information online that could be used to track you down. Again, I'm very sorry, but this probably doesn't belong here.

Answer 7

sorry to hear that. But maybe you can try and talk to your mom and comfort her. And for you little cousins well it all depends on their age. they are going to find out sooner or later but let their mother tell them. What are they going to do on the funeral comes

Answer 8

Be a support for your mom and try to remain calm while she figures out what to do. You are obviously not old enough to take charge so just hug her and let her cry.

Answer 9

i'm really sorry to hear about that my brother has been diagnosed with cancer and he's only 21 but to the question i think u should leave it to the adults thats best because they will know the right words to say and answers to their questions

Answer 10

I am so sorry to hear about your Uncle's passing.

Your cousins will be told when your aunt is able to properly explain it to them. Your aunt would probably appreciate your assistance in caring for your cousins while she attends to your uncle's final arrangements.

Again, I am sorry for your loss.