My Fiance is a pastor's child. I love him dearly, His dad is thinking about taking a pastorship in Idaho, We would be 1400 miles away from each other. What do you think I should do? Should I marry him before he moves or what, please give honest opinions.
Ok to make this easier. Him and i are in our early 20's we have been together since highschool. I am deeply in love with him and I would do about anything for him. The major problem is we don't want to live together before we are married, I also have a good job and college to go to so that I can get the degree that I want.
2006-08-05 17:50:45 · 4 answers · asked by QueenBethies 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
How soon were you planning on getting married? If it was going to be soon, I would think about moving the date up, if it wouldn't have a bad effect on the planning. I live 100 miles away from my fiance, and it KILLS me to be away from him during the week. If it were 1400 miles, I would really be bad off. It all depends on the strength of your relationship as to whether or not you both could handle being that far apart. It works out for some people, but others have major problems with long-distance relationships.
I wish you both the best of luck in whatever you decide to do!!
:)
2006-08-05 18:39:10 · answer #1 · answered by ☼ lovethesun11 2 · 11⤊ 3⤋
Do the distance relationship thing until you finish your education. Your education is the most important thing. If you both love each other, God will keep you together. By all means, DO NOT live together.
2006-08-06 01:36:51 · answer #2 · answered by wa1tjb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why does he need to go with his dad ? can't he just move into a relative close by or live on his own ?
If he were to move , how long will be he gone ?
2006-08-06 01:04:08 · answer #3 · answered by Don Richard G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my advice get married it seems like you are both comitted to each other so y not take the next step good luck
2006-08-06 01:02:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋