me and my boyfriend andrew broke up a while ago b/c his friend was sayin mean things about me nd told me andrew said them. now that i no the truth i want him back but he has a nother girlfriend. but they like never talk and he says its a bad relationship but he wont talk 2 his girlfriend about it. i want 2 help him but yet i want 2 go back out with him. how do i tell him i never got over him and help him out at the same time?
2006-08-05 17:44:34 · 13 answers · asked by chelseanaynay 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
andrew wasnt sayin those things...his friend wuz and i really still like him
2006-08-05 17:48:51 · update #1
and what happens if he thinks im crazy and doesnt wanna talk and hates me then....and wouldnt even want 2 be my friend but i still feel the same way i do now?
2006-08-05 17:58:01 · update #2
is this the rite way 2 talk 2 andrew?...i wuz thinkin about callin him and tellin him how i felt and i had 2 no if he felt the same way about it and if he doesnt then i have 2 move on but i hope we can still b friends....is that a good way 2 ask him
2006-08-05 18:08:57 · update #3
is that the rite way 2 tell him
2006-08-05 18:32:32 · update #4
First of all you should have never listened to anyone who gave you information about your boyfriend. Always ask the person accused of saying things directly about them. Stop being a go between or letting people tell you things.
As far as your ex having a new girlfriend, yeah, they don't wait long do they? Take that as a caution about getting back witih Andrew -- he may not like this gir much but he is with her.
Don't even think about trying to "help" him. Wait until they break up and then you can talk to him again. In the mean time, leave them ALONE to self destruct without you being involved.
2006-08-05 17:50:14 · answer #1 · answered by DD 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell Andrew the way you feel and tell him that if he really likes you the way you like him that he needs to break it off with the other girl.This should be easy considering that he isn't happy with her anyway.If he can't do it himself then I think you need to have him write her a note or you can call her and say that he was to scared of hurting her feelings and that it just wasn't working out.
2006-08-06 00:55:13 · answer #2 · answered by Stacy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wel the best thing is go to his face and tell him how you feel oky. Dont forget. Some times in life you have to face the true. Your going to tell him how you feel. And dont try to kiss him or anything less oky. And please take your time. Then you have to sit down with him and them asking why are you haveing problems with his girlfriend. Dont be to hard on him ok. Then you have to look at him and asking why he's haveing problems with he's girlfriend. Take your time. Now that you alone take the time to think about what are you going to say to him ok....
2006-08-06 00:54:43 · answer #3 · answered by Fallen Angel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u really care for him then tell him the truth in if he fell the same way about u he would leave her in get back to get here with u
2006-08-06 00:53:04 · answer #4 · answered by james w 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him, if you tell him and he understands you there will be no problem getting him back and plus if he is or was feeling you in the first place he will forgive you i hope you sound nice youll find a way.
2006-08-06 00:53:05 · answer #5 · answered by Adrian N. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on live your life and date others youll find the right one
2006-08-06 00:48:03 · answer #6 · answered by Board 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't. Something similar happened to me a few years ago. If he will believe something untrue, you don't want him or want to help him. You can do better!
2006-08-06 00:52:53 · answer #7 · answered by Cara Beth 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You "never" got over him? Give it a couple more days.
2006-08-06 00:49:07 · answer #8 · answered by heargodlaugh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget him, move on. If he listens to a "friend" instead of you, you deserve better than that.
2006-08-06 00:47:28 · answer #9 · answered by jumpingrightin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him how to help her. then tell him how you feel. He will know then that you are very special.
2006-08-06 00:49:27 · answer #10 · answered by lovely soul with insite 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋