How do I get a girl to like me?

Question

she recently broke up with her bf. i had asked her out once before, before she rejected me because of her bf. i gave her roses and wrote a love poem. what approach would work this time? how do i get her to say yes to me? she is very complicating, but beautiful. i'm a good looking guy myself. i need help

Answer 1

Be yourself. Tell her how you feel about her. Ask her out to lunch or dinner. Love poems are a bit strong at first - especially if you haven't gone out with her yet. The poems usually follow the date!
Good Luck...if you are as sweet as you appear, she should be lucky to go out with you.
(I love roses and poetry, she should feel honored)

Answer 2

First of all, let her get over the past relationship, it would take time, even you can help her getting over that but never expect her to love you back in return.
First and foremost thing in love is that, it is a feeling which comes within you, you can't force anybody to develop that. But you can inculcate that feeling by taking care of her in tough times, and be always there with her at any point of time when she needs you.
Always accept a person as the way they are, then it would be easy for both you. So don't think that she is complicated, sometimes you look the outer part of the things, but not the inner one.
So dude just help her get over the past relationship and wait for good dyas to come and it might happen that she might propose you, but for that you should not be selfish.

Answer 3

Hey. i see your problem, so i will try my best alright? First thing you have to do is ignore everyone else alright? (Especially the guys)

Here is what you do...

1.Be romantic and sweet to her.
2.Be yourself. Girls like boys who are themselves. And make sure you know the girl! While girls appreciate an honest boy, if who "you" are is not what the girl is into, you're not going to get very far... The reason why you be yourself because the girl wants to know what you really are like. (Not just some wannabe)
3.Try to make her laugh. Girls like boys who are funny.
4.Talk to her about stuff she is interested in like music. Or more importantly, try to get her to talk about herself. Then build on that. People are naturally more comfortable talking about themselves anyway- think of it as an opportunity to find out more about this girl so you can determine more fully if you want to pursue her further. Also, if you are stuck on some conversation starters, remember the two starters that always seems to work: food and weather.
5.Don't be too clingy. Give her her space.
6.Make sure that you're not always the one calling her and instant-messaging her. Wait for her to IM you when you get online or for her to call you. If she doesn't, she may not like you in the same way. (Of course, she might just be shy and doesn't know how to make the first move.)
7.Always be polite. Take into consideration the girl's feelings.
8.Compliment her. Just make sure that you are sincere, don't just make something up- if you look for something that really makes you like her, she'll know that you're interested in getting to know her better.

Tips
Be sweet. Don't talk all about you. Ask her about her day or what she did.
Be a gentleman! Open the door for her, don't interrupt. Girls like a nice guy (well, most of 'em).

Remember that most of all, a girl wants to be appreciated. The more genuine and specific you are, the better.
Find out her hobbies by asking her questions about the kind of music she likes, observing her environment, and asking about clothes or pictures she might have.
Compliment her. Say that her hair looks nice or she has a cool shirt on. Mean it!

Tell her she is pretty. No matter how ugly a guy is, a girl will usually be flattered when she is told this. Say "You've got the most beautiful eyes/hair/skin/hands/etc. I've ever seen" and again - mean it!

Take a shower, put on deodorant, and brush your teeth right before you see her - every time. Nothing makes a girl more uncomfortable than body odor and/or bad breath.
Listen! You need to be a good listener. that works with most of the girls, they need someone who will patiently listen and understand them! There is a HUGE difference between "Hearing" and "Listening" so make sure you don't just "hear" her. Pay close attention to what she is saying and really "listen" to her from your heart!(Or ears)

Be truthful, there is no need to lie. Girls usually find out anyway:(

WOW This took a long time to write, well anyways do as i say and you will be with her in time.

I wish you the best of luck alright?

Also, you must know to not MAKE her like you, she has to like you in her own way. These are tips that i've used to have her like me for who i am. Also make sure she is over her last relationship.

Answer 4

OK just be confident, find the guts to talk to her, find out as much about her, it will pay off to know these things. Just make her happy with the little things, her favorite song, what she likes to do in her spare time, what she likes eating, you get the idea. And on her birthday or special occasions do something big. But don't over do it by keep on giving her roses or poems she'll get tired of them. and don't forget to compliment her. remember its OK to get rejected but its not OK if your not able to move on. so take the risk.

Answer 5

why dont you invite her out for a little cofee break etc, tell her you just want too simply talk too this girl tell her you have no strings attached right now you just want too sit downe over coffee or what everr and just talk it out dont be pushy with you, for now i think she just wants a good friend and time too get over her old boyfriend etc, remember she came off from one boyfriend okay and maybe just need a friend like you right now i can sense what you want in her right now but give her time too rebound back, shes mending be her friend for now injitte the girl out for now etc. dont push her yett!!

Answer 6

Most girls don't date their stalkers, even if they break up with their actual real-life boyfriend. The poem was probably a bit much.

Answer 7

you try to ******* hard, second she just broke up with her bf so give her sometime(1-3 months). And just hang out with her and don't put too much pressure on her to go out with you.

Answer 8

well from experience, i was in a relationship and i had some dumb mfer send me flowers ,teddy bears and all of that mushy **** and to be honest i wasn't interested then and i let him know i wasn't interested after my divorce. so dude move on she's not interested if she was she would let you know. so save yorself a heart break and find somebody that is interested.

Answer 9

dont make her like u let her like u because she wants to.if u are a great guy she will.just do what u are already doing.u can aslo be someone she can talk to

Answer 10

She needs to see you doing something really well. Until she sees you doing something well, she will not be interested.