2006-08-05 17:20:56 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you can't MAKE someone love you. but you can try to improve your chances he will... First (the thing you hate to hear), be yourself. There's no reason to try to be anyone but yourself, cause even if it gets him to like you then, what's the fun in having to pretend all the time, or in having him like someone that's just not you? Next, keep up with him. talk to him, laugh with him. flirt (just not so much that you seem desperate) with him.if he already knows you love him, these things will allow him to see what a cool girl you are, and allow him to realize if he does love you. Good luck, girl!
2006-08-05 17:26:43 · answer #1 · answered by KentukeeFryedChik 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Step #1: Realize that you can absolutely never make anyone love you. The very nature of love is that it is freely chosen.
Step #2: Do your best to befriend the person without pressure towards "more". If you can first develop a good communication and rapport, you will have better chances of deeper feelings evolving naturally.
Step #3: Be patient: don't try to push or rush anything at any time.
Step #4: Remember that love is a very tough area to "keep it real" with. In other words, expect problems! If you expect it to always be easy, you will be disappointed every time!
Step #5: When the time is right (and there can be no rules on exactly when this is) it can become important to communicate how you feel about the person directly to them. This can be difficult, but it is essential. (Note: never try to run communications throught 3rd parties!)
Finally: LISTEN to what the other person says and WATCH how they react to your expression of your feelings. If it is mutual, you'll be able to tell. If not: FACE IT, and either move on or keep being patient and accepting of whatever friendship you have developed.
Have fun!
2006-08-06 00:28:18 · answer #2 · answered by diamondspider 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you can't make someone fall in love... You can get someone to fall in love with you, though... So... Having said that... All that there's left for you to do... Is to get him to fall in love with you... How to do that?
Well... Find out the things he likes and the type of girls he likes...Once you've done that, try to become compatible with him... Sort your activities so that they match his... Don't rush him though... DO NOT tell him you love him... He'll freak out... You could, however, tell him that you like him... Or you could give him clues and hints... Pop out a few lines every once in a while... Cute lines like... "Wow, your hair is so cool"... Or... "You're too cute"... Or even... "Who was your doctor when you were a Kid? I gotta give him call, 'cause it seems like he prescribed a lot of beauty pills"
LoLoLoLoLoLoL...
I don't know... I JUST made those up... But that's what you gotta do... Make things up... Be refreshingly original.... Impress him... GET him to fall in love with you... Don't make him... Keep that in mind...
In addition to just trying to appear beautiful for him... Try showing off your inner beauty as well... Get him to know you well...
Good luck!
2006-08-06 00:32:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately you cannot make someone love you. Love is an emotion and people do not decide who they will fall in love with. What you can do is treat him with love and express it to me and because you love him only wish happiness for him whether that is to love you or be in love with another.
2006-08-06 00:25:03 · answer #4 · answered by ѕомєопєѕ▪ ваву ♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you really can't make him love you, he has to see for himself that you are the girl for him, just be yourself and try to get on his good side by doing things he likes do to or spending more time with him. OR you could just seduce him, he is a Guy after all.........
2006-08-06 00:25:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it up you cant make someone love you just move on and quit wasting your time.
2006-08-06 00:24:20 · answer #6 · answered by whitebeanner 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can not make anyone love u they either do or they do not. if he has not shown u any good responses 2 knowing u like him then move on.
2006-08-06 00:23:54 · answer #7 · answered by Lady Geo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Spread em wide lol
2006-08-06 00:25:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u can't force someone to like u
2006-08-06 00:32:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU CANT MAKE SOMEONE LOVE YOU, HE DOES OR HE
DOESNT, Y OU NEED TO FIND SOMEONE THAT WILL LOVE
YOU.
2006-08-06 00:27:00 · answer #10 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋