me and my boyfriend andrew broke up a while ago b/c his friend was sayin mean things about me nd told me andrew said them. now that i no the truth i want him back but he has a nother girlfriend. but they like never talk and he says its a bad relationship but he wont talk 2 his girlfriend about it. i want 2 help him but yet i want 2 go back out with him. how do i tell him i never got over him and help him out at the same time?
2006-08-05 17:19:44 · 19 answers · asked by chelseanaynay 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The only thing I can say is shame on you.
You should have believed in, trusted in your boyfriend or at least given him the benefit of the doubt.
Why should he or would he take you back when you did not put any trust in him and in your relationship?
Best thing you can do at this point is be his friend, help him out with his new girl and try to regain his trust in you and then see where things go from there.
And lesson learned should be...........don't always believe what everyone tells you.
And learn to trust in your significant other.
When there is no trust in a relationship..........there is NO relationship. And friends tend to be jealous of your relationships and tend to try and sabotage them because they think that you don't have time for them any more.
Find out both sides to the story before you make a rash judgement and then find out you made the wrong one.
2006-08-13 16:58:08 · answer #1 · answered by ETxYellowRose 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
,You cant hide behind the friendship fence Tell him that it was a big misunderstanding that you were wrong to believe that he would hurt you in this way and that your fire still burns for only him .
If he cant find happiness with his new partner then you would love a second chance to have your life with him . He may be feeling exactly the same feelings for you ,how silly would you feel If he walked away and you never got the chance to say that he was your world and now you walk in his shadow lost with out him there to light your way . ....oh that s good stuff use it
2006-08-13 12:57:43 · answer #2 · answered by slick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know how that situation very well i just got through on of those relasion ships about 10 months ago my advice is just go t his house one day and see if u can talk to him , he probley has some feelings for u to and if u let him know that then it might help some what , being a guy my self i would just give it time my self , i mean some day he will realize that u r trying to help out but do not try to push him to far b/c then he will proble not speek to u , just go with what u think is best , i wish u good luck
2006-08-13 14:57:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First tell him that you are there for him as Friend to talk about his current bad relationship. If he wants out of it then encourage him to leave, but do not tell him that you want him back until he is out of that relationship. Also don't bad mouth her to him just encourage him to follow his heart and be happy for him in whatever he decides. You'll be fine. Good Luck.
2006-08-10 08:48:33 · answer #4 · answered by happygirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe he's upset that you believed what his friend said with finding out for yourself. I also think he still cares about you but doesn't know if the same thing can happen again. Just keep trying to talk to him thats all you can do.
2006-08-13 11:29:05 · answer #5 · answered by robert d 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, stop worrying about it. Just live your life and act like you got better stuff to do. (Really you Do, you just don't know it)
If he really wants to be with you he will come around and move on away from that other girl. guys don't just hang with chicks they don't like. Come on.
Have some fun, don't take everything so deep. You are missing your life.
2006-08-13 15:22:07 · answer #6 · answered by Gigit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously if he's telling you the relationship isn't going good he still likes you because if he didn't still like you he wouldn't want you to think his relationship isn't going well. He'd either not say anything or tell you how good its going. I say go ahead and tell him how you feel it sounds like he still has feelings for you.
2006-08-13 15:14:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if this guy wont break up with his girlfriend; then he might just like her. And maybe he doesnt want to hurt your feelings.
2006-08-13 14:09:14 · answer #8 · answered by Cher 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him how you feel, how you never got over him and that you are sorry for believing what his friend said, and that he needs to talk to his girfriend about his relationship
2006-08-13 14:39:31 · answer #9 · answered by colombia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You keep lingering around, until he is ready for you. Of course, take a reasonable amount of time.
2006-08-13 15:30:01 · answer #10 · answered by sheba 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋