so i was just being a normal 14 year old girl on myspace when i suddenly get this message from a guy. he gave me his cell # and asked for my screen name. i gave him my screen name because i didn't see the harm. we talked a little, like "whats up" "nm" and yesterday he started prying into my personal life a little bit. and then tonight he flat out asked me to cyber with him. I was like "uh, no." and i blocked him.
and here's the scary part
he called my cell phone
i swear i didn't give him my number, i swear to god i didn't give it to him or put it out in the open where he could find it. I didn't answer it because I didn;t recognize the number and then i looked back on my messages and there it was.
want to know an even SCARIER part? he just told me after he asked me to cyber that he's 18. then he got on a diff sn and asked me to phone sex
after i blocked him, he callled
i'm so scared
idk what to do
what if he gets my address
help me please please just help me
2006-08-05 17:11:52 · 33 answers · asked by lia 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
andrew d maybe they can tell me what to do ok i'm ******* scared out of my ******* mind so stfu!
2006-08-05 17:18:23 · update #1
please keep answering, i read them all and i'm still not sure of what to do!
2006-08-05 17:40:32 · update #2
Omg, tell ur parents, and then if he keeps doing more and more things, get the police involved. Whatever you do, just make sure u get an adult involved. Better safe than sorry. Hope this helps! Good luck!!
2006-08-05 17:16:49 · answer #1 · answered by . 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, Are you sure that this is not some friend just pulling a prank on you. If your sure of that or not I think you should still tell your parents. They can help you thru this , Also you probably need to call the police to let them know. Then change your sn,phone numbers and everything.
2006-08-05 17:21:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to back off.. could it be someone you know that is playing games or something tell him that you are 14 change your my space so no one that you don't add can't see your profile remove anything that says your name on it other than your first name or anything that says your address even your town and then remove him from your friends if he is on there create a new s.n. and give it only to your good friends that you can trust. and for the cell phone have a guy answer it and act like it is there cell phone maybe then they will stop and if they don't then you need to tell someone.
2006-08-05 17:21:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, get ahold of the police right away and tell them your being cyber stalked. They'll get the proper federal authorities to get this guy.
Are you sure you left absolutely no information about yourself online? Perhaps you have it on your profile? I can't see how he could take a s/n and get information like that unless you posted it somewhere- If he gets his hands on your name or number, it could be real easy to find out everything else he might want to know.
Let your parents know what's going on and get the police in on this right now. Let them know his screenames, phone number, and tell them everytime he calls or try to chat you up. What he's doing is ILLEGAL and WRONG. Go get this get this guy.
2006-08-05 17:28:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't blame you, I'd be freaking out too. But let's step back and think about it. If he has your cell phone number, and you didn't give it to him, where could he have gotten it? I would think it's someone you already know, or HE knows someone you know. Did you google his phone number (if it showed up on your cell phone's caller ID)? If you're really scared, call the police - they could at least get him on attempted rape (if you're under the age of consent where you live). You have his phone number - call the cops and give it to them. Tell them he's 18 and you're 14. They'll take care of the rest.
2006-08-05 17:18:41 · answer #5 · answered by They call me ... Trixie. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Copy all of the things you just told about, I mean actually copy it don't rewrite it on a peice of paper. Save any messages he may have left on your phone. Tell your parents or legal guardian. Then call the police. You need to be very cautious on the internet, someone can find out almost anything they want on here. Stay safe, good luck.
2006-08-05 17:19:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Myspace is a very dangerous place. There are many perverts looking for kids there. Call the police. I'm very serious. They want to catch these pedophiles. This guy could be a rapist that they've been looking for. You can also go to www.cybertipline.com and fill out the information there. They will go after him. Please do not ever give out any info on the internet. It is a dangerous place.
2006-08-05 17:18:32 · answer #7 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first, tell your parents. yeah, it'll be hard and they'll probably give you a huge lecture, but you need to do it! this guy could be really bad......thats freakin scary that he found your number when you didn' give it to him :/....anyways, delete your myspace and get a new cell number. but doooo tell your parents and they'll probly get the police involved or something. for all you know it's an old gross man so maybe one of those interent investigater people who find those guys could help you. gosh i'm sorry! thats way scary. stay safe!! <3
2006-08-05 17:51:34 · answer #8 · answered by sugarandspice015 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Turn your cell phone off and tell your parents what's going on. If you're home alone, call a friend or family member to come stay with you. And next time, be more careful.
2006-08-05 17:16:16 · answer #9 · answered by Melissa F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call the Police, this guy is a sexual predator. You need to be protected. Tell your parents, be careful what kind of information you are making available on line. Good Luck
2006-08-05 17:17:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋