he saids all the time that he likes me im sexy pretty .... and more ...but until know he never ask to a date or try to get together he said he is always busy cause of work ... and for now he doesnt want a serious relationship cause he doesnt have the time
should i keep waiting ??? i like him but i dont have deep feelins for him yet ...i just dont want to get hurt again..
2006-08-05 17:01:10 · 9 answers · asked by sonyk78 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
darling from my experience dealing with the same situation i would be very cautious too. i am still hurting cos i was seeing someone on line and he would either stand me up or just not talk to me. since then we have met and nothing changed when i expected it too. i didnt turn into a very nice person after that - it ate me up to be honest. i am not saying it is the same but will he have the time you deserve or want is the question. you sound sensible enough to be looking at it from a distance. that should tell you something in itself. good luck love. i hope it all works out for you.
2006-08-05 17:11:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well there might be 3 dimension to this situation:-
1) Guy you are looking for, has priorities which are higher than getting into relatioship, thats why he is busy with work. .
2) He likes you but he is still unsure of your feelings, he might be waiting for a move from your side.
Also you should have your priorities and look whether he fits in there or not, if yes then you can probably wait for him or you take the first step and talk with him for getting into some serious kind of relationship.
2006-08-06 00:16:11 · answer #2 · answered by Sunny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ever heard the expression actions speak louder than words? Well it sounds to me like you having a talk with him about it couldn't hurt. Atleast you'll find out what he really wants right now and maybe for the future as well..and how far away that future may be. Maybe being friends for awhile could be another option it can't hurt to make another good friend.
2006-08-06 00:06:55 · answer #3 · answered by ѕомєопєѕ▪ ваву ♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can ask him out. Maybe he waiting for that. Maybe you can spend your time with him when the day is Sunday. If you doesn't have any feelings to him, that maybe you not knowing him so much. So the only solution for this is, it is your duty to ask a date from him not he because he just to far to busy.
2006-08-06 00:13:37 · answer #4 · answered by Haris_murshidy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget him. If he really likes you, then he should try and make sometime to spend with you. He isnt at work 24/7. Find a guy who will make time for you.
2006-08-06 00:05:54 · answer #5 · answered by Serena 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My advice is that if you have to ask people if you should wait for someone, you probably shouldn't. If you're not sure about doing something in your own mind without having people tell you you're doing the right thing, then you're not doing the right thing.
2006-08-06 00:14:49 · answer #6 · answered by Melissa F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No matter how modern we get, men like to be the hunters just like cavemen. He knows you like him. Let it go. When and if he has the time or the interest, he will pursue you. In the meantime, keep looking.
2006-08-06 00:06:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't put your life on hold because of him. He could just be a flirty person. He could have changed his mind. He could just be too busy to do it right now. Whichever one of those reasons he's using to act like this, it doesn't matter, I still suggest you go out and live your life. Don't put it on hold.
2006-08-06 00:05:41 · answer #8 · answered by Olivia B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SOUND LIKE YOU NEED TO MOVE ON, AND FIND SOMEONE
ELSE THAT WILL BE THERE FOR YOU.
2006-08-06 00:10:34 · answer #9 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋