why is he the one who pursues me when the other woman is supposedly the one he loves. no, i have not given in.
2006-08-05 16:44:44 · 7 answers · asked by jamie 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
if it is due to a need not met by the other woman... then why is he with her. it is a constant stream of "i miss this about you, or she will never do this". can i help him in his indecision?
2006-08-05 17:06:15 · update #1
He's a dog. Just dump his a$$. That is, unless of course you want an indecisive "man" who can't figure out who he is or what he wants out of life.
2006-08-08 05:57:50 · answer #1 · answered by Samba Queen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion, it seems that men are naturally polygamous and women naturally monogamous, I think it stems from way back when. Whereby men are polygamous in order to ensure the survival of the species, by diversifying the seed spreading you attempt to ensure the survival of at least one of your offspring and therefor future generations of humanity. Women seem to be monogamous in order to ensure that only the strongest or most desirable genes get passed on to future generations thereby ensuring our continued growth and development...
Speaking candidly from my own persononal experience I can honestly say that I don't stop loving any of my past girlfriends, and I don't think I ever will. Fact is I make the decision not to pursue any other women while I'm in a relationship with someone else out of respect for their feelings...But I can't turn off the desire to mate with other females...It's a constant struggle. And because it is a constant struggle that makes me believe that it's natural. It doesn't seem very accepting though, In order to fulfill social ideals I'm forced to go against what seems natural. Being a guy is harder than it seems....
Hope this helped at least a little.
See Ya 'round
2006-08-05 17:14:00 · answer #2 · answered by Joshua Pettigrew 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Always seeking a need that is not met or an experience that is different from what we have. This is a Dilemma women face as well. It is the nature of the human animal to always seek what will make us happy.
2006-08-05 16:52:56 · answer #3 · answered by Kenneth H 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Argus always comes back for me. Though I wont let him eat my possum stinky. I love my pets
2006-08-05 16:49:02 · answer #4 · answered by ast5792 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Each of you fulfills a different need for the guy. You give him something she doesn't; she gives him something you don't.
2006-08-05 17:12:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because he wants to have his cake and eat it too!!!!!!!! You go girl, keep up the good work........Eventually he'll get tired and move on..........Take care...........
2006-08-05 16:50:26 · answer #6 · answered by mizzzzthang 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he wants some variety. and you're the variety.
2006-08-05 16:49:02 · answer #7 · answered by de bossy one 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋