How can I tell my dead friend that I'm sorry for why and how he died and know for sure he heard me??????

Question

no ive never seen him or really talked to him since he has been dead. but something is weighing on my heart i need to tell him and get an answer from him, somehow. dont tell me to write a letter and put at his grave... i had sent a letter to him before he died and it was returned to me, he never got it. i think if he had received it, he would still be alive now. please only serious answers. its difficult loosing someone you love, dont make it harder for me by criticizing me.

Answer 1

You don't need to do anything. All has been revealed to your friend in death. Without even speaking he already knows what is in your heart.
Now it is your turn to hear him. Find a quiet time or place and sit and just listen. Listen with your heart....I am sure your friend will be able to ease your heart so that you are not to worry anymore.

The reason I can tell you this with such certainty in my heart is because one of my brothers died at a young age and it tore the family apart...we all felt that there were things we needed and wanted to say. But in his own time my brother has revealed to each of us that he is ok and he knows what is truly in our hearts.

I hope this helps and I am sorry for your loss.

Answer 2

There are real mediums who can communicate with some who have crossed over. But if that is not doable I would suggest you practice meditation for a sense of communication and closure You can call on your personal angel to help you transmit your message and receive confirmation about your friends trasition and healing on the other side.Include the intention that your friends passage on the other side be easy There is also a process of releasing ties and exchanging mutual forgivness even if you feel that you are just pretending the conversation it will get through
I feel that your friend who has crossed over has reached peace though regrets some action taken is more unsettled by your current distress than by the issues during life include wishing well and release from all negative Karma

Answer 3

I won't criticize you, but I have to tell you there's no way you can do this... it's not possible. If it were, then life would mean something entirely different than it does.

We all must say what we have to say, while we have the chance to say it. Once the chance is gone, it's gone. It's a fool that ignores this fact... and runs the risk of ... well I don't need to tell you the risk.

Now... know this for your own relief... you're not a fault for whatever happened. You did the best you could, you're doing the best you can, and you will always do the best that you can.

Let yourself go of this burden...

Answer 4

Well,, many religions believe that when someone dies they are asleep until the ressurection. So I am not going to tell you that you can definatly tell him adn recieve adn answer from it. The Danger of trying to Talk to spirits is that not all spirits are good and you have no way of knowing if it is honestly your friend you are talking to.

Ouija boards are dangerous things to mess with. Signs are also usually just a way to justify somethign to yourself. sending a flower you could say that the flowers outside your job or a Anne Geddes Gallery in your area is a sign, it doesn't make it one.

Contacting the dead can open up many spiritual doorways, many of which you don't want to open.

Answer 5

How about praying and asking your high power to guide you to an answer. You say you don't want to send a letter then talk to God or whoever your higher power is and ask him to guide your thoughts, feelings, and any guilt or remorse that you may have about your friend's death. Also, please read Ecclesiastes 9:5, 10 Psalms 146:3 @ 4, and maybe this will give or bring you some comfort. Forgive yourself for anything that you may have done to cause any harm to him because I am sure if you did, he has forgiven you. Also, we are all imperfect, and are prone to make mistakes; they're called mistakes because they are usually not planned. May the God of your understanding guide your heart and emotions......Best wishes....

Answer 6

The answer I will give is not to criticzise you but to help you not send your friend another message that your friend does not get.
Often People say they have talked with the dead. The late James A Pike, a prominent Episcoplian bishop, said he talked with his dead son Jim. According to Pike, his son told him: "I have masses of people around me, and hands lifting me up, as it were.....I was so unhappy untill I could make you know."
Since such experiences are so common, it is evident that many people have spoken to someone from the spirit world. But they have not talked with the dead, The Bible is very clear when it says:"As for the dead, they are conscious of nothing at all."(Eclesiastes9:5) So if it is not the dead who are speaking from the spirit world, who are speaking? Who are pretending to be dead persons?
Wicked spirits are. These spirits or demons, are angels who joined Satan in rebellion against God. Why do they pretend to be persons who have died? It is to advance the idea that the dead are still living. Wicked spirits have also lead many to believe the lie that death is only a change to another life. To spread this lie, wicked spirits provide spirit mediums, fortune tellers and sorcers with special knowledge that only seems to come from persons who have died. So please keep away from those because they are used by wicked spirits and you will only get more heartache by listening to them, wicked spirits are wicked, and they only want you to miss seeing your brother again where as God promised he would bring back to life dead loved ones!So your better bet would be to turn to God instead and get help from him instead!

But there is a way that you can talk to your friend againemail me I will tell you more!

Answer 7

I would suggest talking to your religious leader, and the two of you talking to him should work. then you can give detail, and actually hear via the first responses from the human with you.
Like when I thank GOD for all the miracles I've received during the weeks between confessions - the priest is a conduit to heaven, not a human, but his reactions bring a solid note of being delivered and of response.
Most religions have leaders that listen, I would go to one - and talk.
Unfortunately - you may not have physical proof, just words, until you see him in heaven again. I ...well can't say See my shipmate died and man it hurt, but you live as best you can, I named my son after him, so he can live through him, (he was 18) - trouble maker,Ha man- well
talk to your religious leader
Peace.

Answer 8

He can hear you. He watchs you everyday and is by you all the time. People don't seem to believe this but I feel thats its true. Just like if you have a ghost in your house and you want it to go away. Tell him/her that they are dead and they don't belong here anymore and they need to move on.

He can here you. So just say what you need to say and know that he will understand. Also do your best to remeber your dreams at night. That is when they will vist you the most.

I hope this helps

I hope that you don't find this as criticzing you becasue I am not. This is how I truly see the those who have pasted. I feel that they are behind you always. For behind you I mean if you could see him he would standing right behind you right now. They stay close to thouse who love them and whom they love.

Answer 9

Say it. Say it as loudly as you can in your heart and mind. Scream it at the top of your lungs. He will hear you if you let him. It will be hard to know if he's heard you, because maybe he can't answer. But I think you'll feel it. Tell him as hard as you can.

It's hard to lose someone close to you, I know. Have you ever seen the Butterfly Effect? This will make more sense if you have. Maybe he died so someone else could live. Time is a strange thing, and life and death are stranger still.

Answer 10

Ecclesiastes 9:5 & 6 For the living know that they will die but the dead know not anything neither have they any more reward for the memory of them is forgotten. Just let it go. It is too late, sorry! Pray about it is all you can do now. Going to "mediums" is expressly forbiden in the Bible. do not go down that road!!! Revelation 21:8