Sure you're a one-man woman but do you think it's okay to admire the scenery or are your eyes only for your beau?
Yes: Ogle Away!
No: Eyes Wide Shut!!!
2006-08-05 16:00:14 · 18 answers · asked by katrina_ponti 6 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Moonriver: Well. ahm.. not so sure.. ha ha!
2006-08-06 05:22:24 · update #1
Seems like everyone is just saying "look but don't touch" and most of the responses have been about "admiring the scenery" which I think is different from having a crush, which was the question. Of course we all notice the beautiful people around us, and there is probably nothing short of poking our eyes out that could stop that.
But, I think if you have a CRUSH on someone else (butterflies in your tummy, making excuses to go talk to/see the person, excessive flirting), then you are on the verge of going to far, if not too far already, if your relationship is defined as a committed monogomous relationship.
I think it is all about communication versus secrecy. If you are saying/doing things that you can't tell your partner (or won't), then you are probably either need to stop or you need to improve communication with your partner. As long as both people in the relationship know what is going on and accept it, then GO FOR IT!!!
2006-08-07 14:01:52 · answer #1 · answered by John C 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes , as long as you both know the relationship isn't serious, if you have already committed an engagement with you boy friend. Otherwise it's just fine. If you're in a married relation ship you can talk to each other about it and use it in fantasy in the bed room.
2006-08-05 23:10:17 · answer #2 · answered by matt2571483 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm married to a fabulous (and gorgeous) Scottish man, but I'm not blind. We can appreciate beauty, that's harmless, but you said "have a crush". I would say that
sounds a little different. Looking- ok, there needs to be a line. You need to ask yourself if your boyfriend was doing the things you are would it make you mad? Good luck. :)
2006-08-05 23:08:38 · answer #3 · answered by Michele D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's like the saying goes...you can look at the menu but just dont order and everything will be ok...so...if you arent going to order yes if you are even tempted to order than no!!!!!
2006-08-06 16:00:38 · answer #4 · answered by à®håñtøm?Még? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya know that saying just cuz ur on a diet doesnt mean u cant look at the menu. i have a g/f and we both look at other people but we know that we may like that person but LOVE each other.
2006-08-05 23:06:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because you have a boyfriend doesn't mean you can't appreciate the beauty of others.
Ogle away!
2006-08-05 23:05:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course! i think every girl who has a man has a crush. just as long as you only look and dont touch!!!
2006-08-05 23:05:27 · answer #7 · answered by Angiee. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes
2006-08-05 23:05:23 · answer #8 · answered by crazi8red 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes
2006-08-05 23:04:06 · answer #9 · answered by booyah™ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to look! (Don't touch though). If you don't look then it'll probably drive you into cheating more than if you did oogle other men. Guys do it, so why can't we???
2006-08-05 23:07:41 · answer #10 · answered by Mischelle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋