2006-08-05 15:56:06 · 40 answers · asked by verysimpleattack 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell her the truth and wait him out. (He's a guy...he's bound to screw it up)
2006-08-05 15:59:32 · answer #1 · answered by Sir J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey verysimpleattack,
Here is some of my best advice. If the girl already has a bf then you should try to tell her at least. If she turns you down your just going to have to accept that.
2006-08-05 16:02:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simple, clear, honest communication is almost always a good thing; you can let her know how you feel, but make it clear you have no intention of causing any trouble, you simply wanted her to know that you had feelings for her, but out of respect for her relationship, you won't be acting on them.
I had a conversation with a girl I'd had a crush on for a while in junior high; she had ended up going out with another friend of mine, and one night we were sitting on a friend's bed chatting, and I admitted I'd always liked her, and she told me she'd liked me too, and had been waiting for me to say something, but finally got tired of waiting, and ended up going out with my friend instead. It was actually pretty cool to find out we'd both been interested in each other; we never ended up hooking up or anything, but we stayed friends, and the air between us was definitely easier, since we understood what the situation was.
Even if she tells you that she's happy with her boyfriend and has no intention of ever leaving him, it'll still make it easier for you two to talk to each other knowing what the scoop is; she won't have to worry so much about your intentions, since you've put them out in the open, and you'll get a clear reading on how she feels, and how she'd prefer to interact with her. You've got lots to gain, and little to lose, so give it a shot.
2006-08-05 16:04:54 · answer #3 · answered by mpetach 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a different girl to love.
2006-08-05 15:58:37 · answer #4 · answered by Ashley F 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a girl without a boyfriend - if she's happy with her boyfriend (or even if she's not) you have no right to get involved
2006-08-05 16:04:32 · answer #5 · answered by Al 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love another girl.
2006-08-05 15:58:24 · answer #6 · answered by Ruby 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on. If you don't, you are just looking for heartache. We can't always help what our hearts feel for another, but fortunately we also have a brain. The brain, when used appropriately will usually tell us what we should do.
There are other, more appropriate opportunities out there for you.
Good luck.
2006-08-05 16:01:08 · answer #7 · answered by wibbsite 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trap the girl's boyfriend in a boobo trap!
2006-08-05 16:04:56 · answer #8 · answered by marquis 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave her alone inless u know she was unhappy in that relationship! you will b lookd down on if u break that up! just flow w/ it and wait it out how old r yall cause if u in yo teens i doubt that her and that dude r going 2 stay long cause of all the drama in school! well good luck! your friend jennifer
2006-08-05 16:00:37 · answer #9 · answered by BEST IN U 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave her alone, never try to break up a relationship... you don't want to be that guy. There are so many other women in the world go pursue them.
2006-08-05 16:02:49 · answer #10 · answered by Ashlee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure you love her? If you are totally sure then just let her be and wait until she and her bf break up. If you love her you wouldn't anything to make her unhappy like sabotage their relationship. While your waiting for them to break up, you should date and see if you can love anyone else. If they do break up that is when I would make my move.
2006-08-05 16:01:08 · answer #11 · answered by katelynndabomb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋