this is 2 hard 4 m3 at my age... i think?

Question

i just turned 17 on Thursday,n
never been in love,cuz i know these guys always trying to use me.
i have a nice body,including a big ***,as they call it,am not being conceited but i'm explaining,whenever i try to make friends and it's a guy,they start out fine,then the next thing you know,they want something like sex,touching ,etc from me.... help..
i want 2 fall in love,truly,madly deeply in love,but i don' want 2 b used.
i just can't seem to have guy friends that will take me as i am or like me 4 me....
it alwyas ends up that way.
most times i know that thats what they want,but i go along,hoping 2 make them see another side of me..,i feel so lonely.

Answer 1

How do you dress? These guys have to be getting their impressions from somewhere. What do you talk about with them? ETC. . . Truthfully it's ok to be 17 and to have never been in love. I was 17 when I met the man that I'm still deeply in love with, although we're several years apart. You just have to wait. A real man that loves you and respects you will come along. It's ok to have not found love yet, your still young my friend. I know it's hard but there's always the future. Maybe stop looking so hard for a guy and Mr. Right will come your way. That's how it happened for me anyway. Good Luck!

Answer 2

I'm afraid that's likely to be true when dealing with males of any age; it's just that as they get older, the hormone levels drop, and their brains are finally able to string 2 or 3 other complete thoughts together *before* the next thought about sex pops into their head. On the downside, it does make them annoying to deal with. On the upside, it simplifies dealing with them considerably; there's never any confusion about what they want.

From their point of view, however, women are a complete mystery, because there's absolutely no way to tell what a woman might be interested in; could be art, music, literature, hiking, skydiving, swimming, running, horseback riding, chess, fashion--the possibilities are endless. Rather than cycling through seemingly endless possibilities, most guys just fall back on what they're most familiar with, which is generally the number one thing on their minds at that age (and with that level of hormones going through their system, it's hard to blame them)--so, they fall back on sex as the topic of interest.

What can help the situation is when you make it very clear what you'd like to do that's non-sexual in nature--that way they don't have to try to figure it out for themselves. Don't just 'hope' they see another side of you; take the initiative, and tell them you're interested in fine art, or cycling, or spelunking, or deep sea diving, or whatever it is that really interests you; chances are you'll find someone who has similar interests who is more interested in sharing *that* activity with you, and will be less focused on just trying to get into your pants. And even if they don't work out, you'll be doing something *you* enjoy--and that's never a bad thing, right?

Answer 3

Just wait for the right person to come along. I know you really want to fall madly, trully and deeply inlove, but if you rush it, you might end up getting disappointed. :) Some jerk might take advantage of you and you might end up getting hurt or worst. Just give it time. The right person will come along.

Answer 4

i kno how that can be,i am one of the few guys that actually get 2 kno the girl n etc.i've been hurt many times cuz the girl always seems to get bored wit havin the guy of their dreams n i was just recently used.so i kno the bullshyt ur goin through...:-(..message me or email me at [e-mail]

Answer 5

Stand up for your self girl. Don't give in, tell them how you feel and if they don't respect that then they aren't worth your time and move on. You will find what you're looking for just be strong.

Answer 6

don't worry, some day there will be a guy out there that will get to know you good and all will be good friends and won't try to use you, but love you for who you are!

Answer 7

Wait?