I know this is sort of lame but I need some advice badly. My boyfriend of 2 years is at tech school in the Air Force. He joined so we could get married and have a better life together. About a week ago he said that he was having a hard time dealing with the relationship and school *hes in the hardest school in the country* and said that for now he wanted to be over. So we've talked everyday and keep talking about being together and say I love you, I miss you, you know. I'm going down to see him. We made it when he was in basic and didnt talk to 6 1/2 weeks and when I was down there it was like nothing changed. So should I wait, does it seem like he really wants that for us or no? Thanks :)
2006-08-05 15:29:27 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Give him the space he needs. In the mean time move on and make a life for yourself. YOu never know what the future holds. It may or may not work out with him. You need to make sure you can take care of you.
2006-08-05 15:35:16 · answer #1 · answered by thesweetestthings24 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is at least indecisive, but he may be simply feeling bad about it.
Sex is not a sign that he wants to keep the relationship, sex does not mean the same for men as it does for women.
If you are honest to yourself and not fantasizing you can tell if he means it when next you visit him.
BTW A guy I loved used a similar technique to end the relationship. It seemed so mild I did not believe him at first, but he meant every word.
2006-08-05 22:39:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
play it cool and don't move on but give him some space and support becasue if he is going through something tough he definately needs your support he will come back if its meant to be and if its not he won't just remember that if you move on too fast then it was not meant to be remember that god knows what is supposed to happen and just try to be patient and pray and saying those things is normal even after he said he wants it to be over he might just be going through a tough time so he might feel this way but if it's not meant to be you will just end up apart so give it time
2006-08-05 22:36:48 · answer #3 · answered by i love my dog 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't wait on him, you can still remain friends though. Make some friends and enjoy life. If it is meant to be you will see him again, by chance.
2006-08-05 22:38:35 · answer #4 · answered by Michael 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WAIT, see what happens sounds like he was cheating on you!
2006-08-05 22:33:44 · answer #5 · answered by Binky 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
face it sweety, there is nothing between u two anymore, sorry to be the one to tell u that.
2006-08-05 22:33:48 · answer #6 · answered by sar-mir 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There no more magic in the relationship,so move on.......ok
2006-08-05 22:40:46 · answer #7 · answered by William E A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i were you, i'd try to get pregnant from him as soon as possible so you dont lose him
2006-08-05 22:34:19 · answer #8 · answered by Mr.No-It-All 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋