why is it ok for a girl to be masculine, but if a guy is feminine then girls consider them weak? do women have a low opinion of themselves that a guy cant be "like a girl" ?
2006-08-05 15:14:22 · 14 answers · asked by ygutyutyutyutyutyu 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
MEN NEED TO BE MEN!!! PERIOD!!! YOU ARE BORN MALE, YOU MAKE YOURSELF A "MAN"!!!
2006-08-05 15:18:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Thats why girls are always competing with other girls. What seems to be werid is that if a guy is gay he is going to want to be with guys who are masculine, not feminine. Don't stress about it, get an occupation where having a wife and children is a negative, like being a cop, soldier, research scientist, truckdriver, priest. Women and girls are not conducive to thinking jobs.
2006-08-05 22:29:50 · answer #2 · answered by Marcus R. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's called a "Double Standard". It's like your folks telling you to "Do as I say, not as I do." Also, most guys who display a feminine side are not what gals are looking for. In the animal kingdom, the strongest males get to mate. Survival of the fittest.
2006-08-05 22:22:29 · answer #3 · answered by Wizard of Oz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because when a guy acts too feminine, it seems as if he's gay, and thats just a bad thing, its okay for a guy to be feminine at times, but just dont take it too far
2006-08-05 22:18:18 · answer #4 · answered by ♥ SNO0KEMZ ♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well to me i really dont care if a guy is a lil bit feminine cause they can actually be kinda sensitive so they can understand if im going through a bad day he wont make it worse.
2006-08-05 22:20:03 · answer #5 · answered by janet556 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women LOVE guys that are feminine ... just so long as they are gay. Otherwise, it seems to bother them.
2006-08-05 22:18:08 · answer #6 · answered by nkasoff 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men who are feminine turn me off completely, even if they are straight.
2006-08-05 22:20:12 · answer #7 · answered by nobodyd 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nopes not at all. most of my guy friends are feminine....enough to where i think they're all gay...but that doesn't mean i look down on them. =)
2006-08-05 22:19:30 · answer #8 · answered by yangie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, if you're gay, I suppose it is okay.
what do you mean masculine? are you talking about women who are assertive? because that's different. if a woman is too masculine, I would say she is a carpet-muncher.
2006-08-05 22:20:19 · answer #9 · answered by one_sera_phim 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you dress nice and have a good sence in style,then it is fine!if you like dressing your gfriend and telling her that she needs a new pair of jeans and talking about dresses,then a little bit weird,and kinda gay!
2006-08-05 22:19:58 · answer #10 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i kno rite it seems so unfair but there are other things that men can do that women can't.It's just the double standard society that we live in .
2006-08-05 22:21:10 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋