They may not look hot on the outside....but I've liked almost every one I've ever met and I'm often attracted to them. But.....social stigma keeps me from getting involved, I guess. Would you think I was a creep if I was going out with one? If so, give me a logical reason why.
2006-08-05 15:05:25 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
liking a girl thats "ugly" as u put it is not wrong. if u like her enough when ur friends make fun of her u'll defend her not go along and if they make fun of u just say just cause shes not the prettiest doesn't mean shes crap! i love her and there's nothin u can do. shes nice and a great gf, if u got a prob with it go talk to the conseler!
thats wat i'd do!
i wouldn't think ur a creep, just that u were nice and saw wat waz on the inside and didn't go by wat waz on the outside.
2006-08-05 15:14:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know that sounds a lot like me(i mean the girls).Its really great that you look beyond physical appearance.But here I completely support social stigma.If you seemed interested in me I would definitely think of you as creepy.
Just think about the girl.She would have to be a rhino to not be affected by bemused stares and snide remarks when you two go out together.however nice and intelligent she may be on the inside the fact remains that most people make a big deal about looks.They will never let her forget what good luck she has had or how she doesn't deserve you.
2006-08-07 04:36:48 · answer #2 · answered by tit4tat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friend, there's no such thing as an ugly woman. Everyones tastes are different, and that's what makes it a perfect world. If you're worried about the stigma attached to a particular woman, then you're just being really shallow. We all see things differently. If you're concerned about what your friends will think, then you need to find a better group of friends. You could be passing up the oppertunity for happiness, for a group of people who won't be around for ever.
2006-08-05 15:38:52 · answer #3 · answered by flaming_dog_racing 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's how I thought about it in school too. The overlooked girls were in my opinion the better adjusted and more down to earth and fun to be with. You're to be commended for having a good head on your shoulders and for being able to see in greater depth than many of your peers.
2006-08-05 15:11:45 · answer #4 · answered by nothing 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are REALLY attracted to someone, then GO for it!
Lot's of "beautiful people" on relationships that are miserable because they really don't "click". 50% of married people divorce because they married for the wrong reasons
Screw what society stigma thinks...it will not get you what you want.
Now get crackin' man!
2006-08-05 15:13:19 · answer #5 · answered by LovePinkPuffies 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course not! i would think ur a totally sweet guy b/c u look past what's on the outside. the only reason i think ppl would think u were a creep is they might think ur toyin w/the girl's heart. in my opinion though, it takes more of a man to date a girl who isn't as attractive as others might think
2006-08-05 15:12:45 · answer #6 · answered by Ne-ne 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who cares what people think? All that matters is what YOU think of her. You're the one dating her and all that. Make yourself happy and forget about social stigmas.
2006-08-05 15:10:07 · answer #7 · answered by I'm just me 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
PRETTY PEOPLE ARE OFTEN UGLY ON THE INSIDE. AND YOU SHOULDN'T BE ASHAMED CAUSE THAT'S WHAT YOU LIKE. IT SEEMS THAT PEOPLE WHO ARE LEAST ATTRACTIVE ON THE OUTSIDE ARE BEAUTIFUL ON THE INSIDE. AND WHEN IT'S ALL SAID AND DONE YOU WANT SOMEONE WHO WILL SHOW YOU LOVE NOT JUST SAY THEY LOVE YOU! SOMEONE HAS TO DATE THEM!
2006-08-05 15:12:10 · answer #8 · answered by BREIZY2SHA 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should not care about what other people think about who you are dating because it is a personal choice.
2006-08-05 15:11:24 · answer #9 · answered by starr 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing at all.. everyone likes different girls.. if you are attracted to girls like that go for them.. to each their own. dont listen to what anyone else has to say.. just follow ur heart
2006-08-05 15:11:03 · answer #10 · answered by hot_surfer_guy17 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋