We've been going out for 5 (almost 6 months). The first 3 to 4 months were great but the last month in a half have gone down hill. I don't know what to do or think anymore!!!
2006-08-05 14:51:48 · 26 answers · asked by sexyswimma 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you are asking this question, then obviously you aren't happy. So that's your answer.
2006-08-05 14:54:21 · answer #1 · answered by thesweetestthings24 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think I'd need some specifics before being able to answer a question like this. Like, in what ways has it gone down hill? Has he been a jerk? Or is it that you're getting bored with him? The best I can tell you is it's your call. You're the one who knows the situation best.
2006-08-05 14:55:56 · answer #2 · answered by Zarango 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just asking the question tells you the answer. You are just over the honeymoon period of your relationship. Imagine later, when you move in together, when you have children. I think it's time to breakup. Too bad you are not a match, too bad. But it's a great opportunity to move and and meet your real match!
2006-08-05 14:55:21 · answer #3 · answered by Shaana 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats not alot of detail. What has happened? What has happened so bad that you want to break up with him. I think you need to wait and figure that out first. If you break up with him without thinking first then you just lost a great guy.
2006-08-05 14:55:47 · answer #4 · answered by LoveLyLonEr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you having real differences or just settling in (which sometimes feels like boredom). If you have different opinions over major issues, break up. If you just feel restless, do something together that you have never done before. (That's why we have vacations from work, to get a change.)
2006-08-05 15:02:29 · answer #5 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to make the relationship more interesting 4 both of u then things can get better. but If you feel like you don't love him anymore you should break up with him. but first of all try to have a deep talk with him. good luck
2006-08-05 15:12:29 · answer #6 · answered by SwEeTGuRl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's kind of hard to tell without really knowing any details. All relationships take work. Maybe take a break apart from each other and see how you feel. Good luck.
2006-08-05 14:55:07 · answer #7 · answered by Sharp3003 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure the 1st month was great and the first 4...after that u judge things..u have the ability to say he does this and he doesn't do that....so ythings will get abit comlicated...no i don't think u should..u know why..because these things ALWAYS happen..look...think of his good side..and thing of how he treats u...and be new to him...change urself....make him see some part he didn't see before...then repeate that question to urself....blieve me i know what ur answer would be :)
2006-08-05 14:57:19 · answer #8 · answered by doctor^love 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Things usually cool off once the sex begins, which is why I've finally decided to wait until marriage.
2006-08-05 14:56:21 · answer #9 · answered by JEFFAVEGRL 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you talked to him about how you feel. Honestly you cannot fix problems if you do not talk them out. Is he worth working it out with? Stop thinking so much and start talking.
2006-08-05 14:57:38 · answer #10 · answered by vadataborn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him about it. Find out what his feelings are. If you can get back on track, fine. If not, then get out before you got too dependant on each other.
2006-08-05 15:02:29 · answer #11 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋