What white person, even if not racist, wouldn't want their daughter bringing home a black man?

Answer 1

i am a parent, and I want my children to bring home people of character, emotional stability, integrity and strong spiritual foundation.

Pigment doesn't make the list!

Answer 2

My friend,

That totally depends on how much you love your daughter.

As a father, I am sure you are very protective of her. But you need to answer the following questions - and in doing so, you will answer your own question.

1. Do you not want your daughter to bring home a black person because you are scared of what OTHER fine white people in the neighborhood or in your family might say?

2. Are you scared that people will think that she "compromised" and thats the "best" she could do?

3. Are you afraid that this "black" person may be "using" your daughter as a "white trophy"?

4. Or are you scared that this is your daughters way of rebelling against you - her chance to get back at YOU - because you literally held her prisoner all her life as a little girl (over protective or calloously indifferent)? And that blinded with rebellion, she doesnt know what she is doing?

I already know that the answer to all of the above four questions is a "Yes".

That, my friend is very sad.

Has it ever occoured to you that this person may be a highly educated cultured man? With impeccable manners and excellent upbringing? And that he treats your daughter better than any other white man could ever treat her? Or the fact that she is so madly in love with him? And that they may have a real happy marraige that lasts for ever?

Be a man, and for a change be happy for your daughter - for her sake and accept her choices - from within.

That, my friend will make your little girl love and worship you till your dying day.

Do the right thing. Did not mean to offend you or anyone else - Just my 2 cents.

Answer 3

I'm not a racist, and I wouldn't mind that my daughter brought home an african american man, but believe it or not there is a group of non-racist people....black and white that although not racist, still would not approve of their son or daughter bringing home anyone of another race. The reasoning behind that is, because they know alot of people are racist....alot of people will make life hard for a couple that is inter-racial. They will be called names....they may get picked on....they may even be threatened with physical harm, depending on the neighborhood that they make their home in. The people I'm talking about that are not racist but still would disapprove of their daughter OR son bringing home someone of a different race, are people that are worried it will bring great hardship and pain to their child and the other person. They don't want their child to have to suffer at the hands of people that are racist. Most parents just want their child to be happy, but the thought of their child living a hard life of persecution because they married someone of another race is hard for them to accept. So it is possible for someone to not be racist, and still not want their child to be involved seriously with someone with noticably different skin color....such as black/white. See it's not really even a question of race.....it's the difference in skin color that causes all the problems. pathetic isn't it? But unfortunately that';s the way it is with alot of people.

Answer 4

What black person, even if not racist, would want their son bringing home a white girl?

Answer 5

I don't get your question are you saying...... "No white person would want their daughter bringing home a black man". That shoe could go on the other foot....."No black person would want their daugher bringing home a white man".

You just never know do you?

Answer 6

The same reasons why some black don't want their black daughters marrying white men(wasn't there a movie about that?). And jewish people, not wanting their child dating someone else, and hispanic man not wanting his child to date...
I would say it's about heritage(or preservation of heritage). The white people(which is a very general term--french, irish, ...) don't want to wake up one day and there be no such thing as an irish person, and black people don't want to wake up one day and there isn't a such thing as an african, no such thing as a jewish person, no such thing as a hispanic,...

Answer 7

i think you mean would want cause if they wouldnt want them to then they would like for their daughter to bring home a black guy. as long as he treats her with the respect she deserves i wouldnt care but that goes for all guys black, white, asian, or whatever. but to answer your question that man may say hes not racist but deep down he is, if he wasnt he would not care what race he was

Answer 8

Personally, I don't care who my daughter dates or sees. But I DO draw the line when it comes to having babies for inter-racial couples. I teach school and it is hard enough to fit in now-a-days for kids, much less put them in a position of being neither race, yet both. I just say think of the kids first. Use your top half of your body and not the bottom.

Answer 9

I'm 19 and Mexican but my dad already told me when I started dating that I would be out the family if I brought home a black guy...he's very racist...which is horrible!!!!!

Answer 10

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