2006-08-05 14:34:24 · 17 answers · asked by bearbear_27 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Find a woman with the same interests as you...one who has children also. Try asking your friends if they know any available women.
2006-08-05 14:40:43 · answer #1 · answered by Jen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't need to do anything! So what, you have a couple of kids and you drive a minivan? Don't feel as though you need to change the person you are or hide who you are because you're afraid that women will run. Some women are just not mature enough to be with a man who has children, and you don't need them anyway. Just be yourself and soon enough you'll find a wonderful woman who will love the fact that you drive a minivan and your kids.
2006-08-05 14:42:38 · answer #2 · answered by Rexy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a woman who has kids and a mini van in your area! I have both too. My marriage is basically over and going to start dating again in the future. I'll face the same dilemma, when I am ready.
2006-08-05 14:41:39 · answer #3 · answered by dtammyus♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to look in the right places. Most women respect a man who takes care of his children- and mini vans aren't that bad
2006-08-05 14:38:34 · answer #4 · answered by mightymight 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know what the problem with the mini van would be, but you need to find someone who wants a guy who's got kids....period. If she doesn't wanna do stepmommy, she doesn't wanna do stepmommy. Period. End of discussion. Kids are a big responsibility even if they are your OWN. You can't just expect it to be easy for someone who didn't give birth to your kids to want to take on that responsibility. Even if their own mother is still in the picture, stepmommy is going to have to share her OWN time, give up some of her OWN money, and deal with the phone calls, illnesses, fights, braces, broken bones, new cars, cancellation of plans, etc...etc.....anything about this you don't understand?? Yeah..yeah..yeah...I know...you are just talking about DATING right now, right?? You're not trying to run down the aisle with anyone right now, right?? Well, most women have FUTURE plans of their own and they are NOT going to invest in someone with a situation THEY do not want for themselves, i.e. if they don't wanna do stepmommy, ain't no point in even STARTING to date someone who's got kids. Got the picture?
2006-08-05 15:09:41 · answer #5 · answered by ami 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ditch the mini van. Preferably off a bridge.
Kids are fine but minivans are kinda poofy. Maybe the babes think you're looking for a 'beard.'
2006-08-05 14:45:07 · answer #6 · answered by dukefenton 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find a woman with kids and a mini-van
2006-08-05 14:39:40 · answer #7 · answered by ♥Summer♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just stop driving that mini van! for one women don't no what to think when there's kids in the picture. if you give it time real women will come around and there's not alot of men taking care of there kids which i think this is a good thing that your taking care of you kids ! just like i sayed real women will come around .
2006-08-05 14:45:18 · answer #8 · answered by sheena w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah....ah....about that mini-van......it's great, I guess....if you like mini vans. They're versatile and suit your purpose and lifestyle. As for the children, they're alright. As long as they're well-behaved and don't make you look like they're the boss and you're spineless. Be patient, I'm sure a woman for you will come along any day now.
2006-08-05 14:45:41 · answer #9 · answered by windandwater 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then they are stupid wemon!I respect a man and am attracted to men who take care of business.I would advice you to get rid of the mini van, and try to look hot all the time.
2006-08-05 14:40:41 · answer #10 · answered by Mimi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋