I fell in love with a lady 5 years, we fell in love almost instantly. We had a relationship on/off for 3 years. One day she disappeared. Each time I try to move on, something brings me back to her. Am I stupid to still love her after 2 years of no word?
2006-08-05 14:32:41 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Oh I have tried to move on several times, with other relationships. Somehow my heart comes back to her?
Is it fate , a cruel game of love or just insanity?
2006-08-05 14:33:47 · update #1
It's love, but you got to move on.If she loved you you wouldn't be asking the world this ?- I bet you have a big heart, move on
2006-08-05 14:37:53 · answer #1 · answered by Mimi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not mad, you are just very normal , decent guy who fell in love truly and with all your heart.
You are not stupid to love her after 2 years of no word from her, you just dont want to accept that shes gone.
Maybe she had good reason to do do, its possible that she doesnt love you as much or some other reason. Did you try to find out what happened to her?She might have met with an accident or gotten married.......several reasons.
You can try to find out why theres no word from her. When you figure out the reason, if there is one, you can go on from there.
If theres no reason, shes just avoiding you, that'll decide things for you. You can move on with your life then.
Its difficult to forget true love.But you shouldnt punish yourself over something thats not your fault. You dont get anything from this. She can have a special place in your life forever, but you must move on. I am sure there are women out there you can be happy with. You will fall in love again!
2006-08-13 16:43:39 · answer #2 · answered by saltnsaffron 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I still remember my first love, Connie Kidder. It's been years but I still think of her every now and then. I still see her eyes and hear her laugh. I see her smile and remember the way she walked. She was killed in a car crash on summer vacation.
You won't forget your lady, you will hurt for quite some time. Hold that love for her in a place safe and special, but you need to give someone else a chance to love you and care for you. Someone who will cherish you. She's looking for you today. Let her find you, don't hide.
2006-08-05 21:43:00 · answer #3 · answered by AK 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well.. I believe you are still very much in love with her, there is always going to be one person who has your heart, even though you have moved on...but believe me try to look pass that, Its been a while now.. Everyone deserves happiness, you have to move on with your life..I am sure that there is someone out there who you will fall head over heels for..Someone who will never leave you! Move on , you will miss your chance at true happiness, I am sure she has moved on! I wish you good luck...
2006-08-05 21:41:46 · answer #4 · answered by lrkarey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is very hard to get over someone you love. I had found my soulmate in life and we had split up. A year later I was trying to still move on in my life and I met this really nice guy. After trying it out for a couple of weeks I just could get my soulmate out of my head. Eventually more time passed and I found someone else to love and love me, but I tell you it took years to get over. I am so sorry for your loss I really do feel your pain.
2006-08-05 21:39:01 · answer #5 · answered by adkfoaiefnafedw 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you say she disappeared, and then something brings you back to her. I am confused, as to if she came back or just comes back to your mind. Because if she disappeared 2 years ago and you haven't seen her since, then you need some help professionally if you can.
2006-08-05 21:39:54 · answer #6 · answered by auntkarendjjb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should just think of her as gone for good, after 2 yrs of no word she musnt feel owt for you or she would of contacted you, some times when a relationship ends we tend only to look at the good side, look on the bad side to & let her stay in your past, look on it as a training period, just move on & dont look back,
2006-08-05 21:42:04 · answer #7 · answered by KATIEKAT 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you are mad. Find some new skank to pound, and use the memories of the lady to jerk off to in the bathroom when you are all by yourself.
2006-08-13 21:31:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie I'm sorry. It's real hard to get over some one you love that just leave. I don't think your crazy. Just be strong. You'll pull through sooner or later. Just you gotta try real hard to 4get her. Best hope to you.Good luck.
2006-08-05 21:38:22 · answer #9 · answered by Leopardette_44 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been in that situation a few times in my life. You just have to move on a forget that part of your life . because it does not change.
2006-08-13 19:31:53 · answer #10 · answered by HastyBabe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋