well this guy that i know is perfect for me. we both like each other and were at a friends house. our pals were pressuring him to ask me out so he finally did. i said no because we rushed into things way to fast. so now he dosent like me any more. i am extremely sad and i cant stop thinking about him. i would of done it to any guy and i really really like him what do i do?
(he plays the same sports, is the same religion, is going to the same high school, and is hot.)
2006-08-05 14:28:45 · 16 answers · asked by CaRoLiNe 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
his name is trevor g
2006-08-05 14:30:03 · update #1
g is 4 grahm
2006-08-05 14:46:28 · update #2
Same thing happened to me...the best thing to do (other than get with him)Is tell him your reasons,tell him that you think you're rushing and that you're not ready ask im to wait(he might if he loves you)don't leave it alone the way it is.He could(and probably will)move on.Believe me it happened to me and now he's taken.say you still like him and that you would've done it to anyone who asked that fast and that you're just not ready he should understand
2006-08-05 14:34:13 · answer #1 · answered by Rosy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him if you can talk to him about it. Just let him know what was going on in your mind at the time, and why you acted the way you did. So many problems end up arising over little misunderstandings that are so easily straightened out with just a little bit of plain and simple conversation. He sounds like a cool person--don't be afraid to just let him know what happened. He'll understand, and appreciate you for it.
2006-08-05 21:33:09 · answer #2 · answered by mpetach 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg ur under alot of pressure. OK when u think ur ready go ahead make the move i mean if he already liked u you will probably have a good chance of getting ur self back into his heart. it's not bad if the girl askes the guy out if he says yes u guys will be happy either way. ask him in email, personal or in a note well good luck
2006-08-05 21:38:35 · answer #3 · answered by brown eyed girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you rushed into sex too fast, and now he does not want to be with you...I am sorry to say that you cannot put that genie back in the bottle.
With everybody being impatient, in a hurry to get what they want NOW, you see the results of being in a rush, and for what? Your friends pressured him into asking you out, and you fell into the peer-pressure thing...
I hope you learn from your mistakes...
2006-08-05 21:47:30 · answer #4 · answered by LovePinkPuffies 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first if you like him and he must of liked you and he was trying to ask you out you should give him a chance and get to know each other and first before he did that are you sure you made the right choice not to go out with even though he might like you and you like him. now first you need to apoloigize to him and ask him if he can forgive you
2006-08-05 21:36:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just leave it chances are he still likes you and wasn't ready to ask you when he did. play it cool for right now and concentrated on being the best friends you could possibly be. and don't mention anything about the incident unless he brings it up. trust me you dont want to alienate him;)
2006-08-05 21:35:01 · answer #6 · answered by Elphaba 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how did you rush into things too fast? All he did was ask you out... call him and ask him to go to a movie or something
2006-08-05 21:31:20 · answer #7 · answered by attila 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call him up and tell explain why you said no. i bet he still likes you. if you just let it go then he won't know that you like him, he probably thinks that the reason why you said no is because you don't like him but you do!
2006-08-05 21:32:20 · answer #8 · answered by jenn85 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Next time tell your friends to butt out. Call him to chat, and see if he wants to go for coffee.
2006-08-05 21:32:58 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats what you get when you play hard to get.....you probably deserved that......poor guy, being pressured and s h i t....and for what.....a NO!!!
2006-08-05 21:33:16 · answer #10 · answered by Ramiro S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋