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Do you love your mother and your other siblings? Yes! well it shouldn't make any difference. Your mother has made a few bad choices obviously in her life, we all do, some not as bad as the other. The problem lies however with your mother and father, it shouldn't have to be something you have to deal with. I'm sure other than the fact you would have gained a few half brothers and sisters it shouldn't make any difference to your relationship with them so let your parents deal with it.

2006-08-05 14:33:32 · answer #1 · answered by mermaiden_4_ever 3 · 0 0

OK, first, define your terms! What do you mean by "found out"?
Found out because your mother told you? Found out from a scientific test?

Did you find out by a double-blind lab test, or from somebody who lies about stuff?

I know a guy who claimed that it was too important a subject for his mother to lie about, so he believed her when she said his father was NOT his father. But, if it's too important to lie about, how come she said the exact opposite for more than sixteen years?

Did your mother tell you, or did someone who has a grudge against her tell you?

And what difference does it make? Your siblings didn't pick their parents, and neither did you.

2006-08-05 14:34:15 · answer #2 · answered by L.V. Ames 2 · 0 0

well if it was 3 of them, how do you know YOU weren't conceived through an affair?

It seems more likely... if they were all born from the same father and you were born from a different one.... Maybe you're the affair child.

2006-08-05 14:26:19 · answer #3 · answered by Steven B 6 · 0 0

it shouldn't really matter that they aren't from your blood because the way you love someone may not always be because you guys are blood related. family is when you love a person so much and you can't live with out them. and hese are the ppl that have been with ou through thick and this so its liek they are your siblings. about your mom or dad's situations you shoudl talk to them. ask them why with out being to . questinative. see how the situation is and put urself in it and how would you react. dont say anyting with out thinking.

2006-08-05 14:29:04 · answer #4 · answered by jessikuh 2 · 0 0

if ur really upset and hurt about it talk to someone in ur family about it.my sister is a half sister as well..from the same reason.but i still treat her the same and wouldnt have it any other way.it does make me disappointed in my mother..and hurt.and if the other parent knows about this u might need to comfort them as well most likely there just as probably more upset then u can imagine.but u should love them just the same.

2006-08-05 14:28:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

I'm sure that was along time ago(doesn't excuse it) but ask your mom about it and try to come to peace with it for yourself and try to just move on. I'm sure you still love your mother and your siblings are still your siblings. Ask your mom if she has asked God to forgive her. God will forgive her,so you should to. Don't try to punish her. How do you know it's true? Good luck and God Bless.

2006-08-05 16:53:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

What do you want to do? Does it make you love them any less? It shouldn't, because it isn't their fault. If you're talking about whether or not to tell them, that has to be a personal decision. I wouldn't, because it wouldn't make them love the person that they thought of as a father any less, it would just confuse them, and possibly make them think less of their mother.

2006-08-05 14:27:09 · answer #7 · answered by Jessica H 4 · 0 0

Ask your Mom.

She is the Voice of Experience and Wisdom.

2006-08-05 14:24:38 · answer #8 · answered by Hermit 4 · 0 0

Provide support and continue to love them as you did before you knew this!

2006-08-05 14:25:55 · answer #9 · answered by princessbuttercup59 2 · 0 0

Nothing. They are still your siblings, they haven't changed, and you shouln't treat them any differently. If they don't know about it, then don't tell them.

2006-08-05 14:34:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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