Don't do anything for her family but do it for her. Stop cheating, admit that you did and stop forever. Cheating - getting many many girls - it all comes to the same thing don't you agree? If you have problems with your girlfriend, talk to her about it. If it can't be solved, let her go.
2006-08-05 14:25:51
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answered by Shaana 5
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Charlie...Charlie Charlie....
What the f#$@ is your problem? First of all, I'm black and I never really knew why white families thought that about other ethnic backgrounds. Now I know. Because your giving them a flipping reason to. Secondly, if your girlfriend is so beautiful then why are you cheating on her? Thirdly, you need to tell your girlfriend that you cheated, you need to tell her parents, you need to stop cheating, and you need to find out if your girlfriend has a good enough heart to forgive you. You see? Black men just are lacking. You want to blame everybody else for not having complete faith in you? But your the one who is contributing to the problem the most. Maybe if you put your butt in school, you would have some common sense. I have to say that I hope you don't get back with your girlfriend. That'll teach you.
2006-08-05 21:30:01
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answered by the jojo 1
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If you HAVE TO ASK, you probably shouldn't be with her.
First, if you really cared about her you would not have cheated.
Second, if you really thought what you did was so bad, you'd be talking to her and not asking on Yahoo Answers.
Third, if the only reason for you to stop cheating on her is "just to prove her family wrong," she deserves better.
Like the others have said, you've already done something that reflects badly on yourself, and, unfortunately, feeds into your girlfriend's parents' racism. (Perhaps you have issues with this that made you not totally into the relationship and THAT led you to cheat in the first place???) Why not come clean and break things off?
2006-08-05 21:29:45
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answered by pixiechick 2
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Okay here is a question....Why are you cheating????? Are you not proving her family correct by doing such??? This is so clique......get off the gas and do the right thing....
Be a real man and stop the cheating....come clean with you girl and if you can't do that, then do the honorable thing and break up with her.
2006-08-05 21:33:18
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answered by Anonymous
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Silly rabbit, tricks are for kids. So, here's the deal. If the family is racist, you will not change them.
You should not stop cheating for the family; you should do it, well, because its the right thing to do.
So, the question isn't whether black men are good, but the question is whether you are a good man.
2006-08-05 21:24:34
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answered by robert_dod 6
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you should of never started cheating on her, but by doing so you are only proving her family is right in their assumptions, whether you stop now or not will not make a difference because the fact is that you've already done it and that will be on their minds...
2006-08-05 21:28:55
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answered by MidnightSkies 7
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How about you just break up with her. You have already proven them right by what your doing. Men like you give black men a bad name. Do everyone a favor and stay with black women, the best of them all.
2006-08-05 21:23:12
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answered by Simmy 5
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I'll never understand why some men can't think with the head above their shoulders instead of the head in their pants. If your girlfriend doesn't satisfy you, then break it off. At least respect her enough to do that.
2006-08-05 21:28:53
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answered by sparkie 6
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You shouldn't have cheated in the first place. Her family sounds pretty right...you just proved it. Get yourself together and set your priorities straight.
2006-08-05 21:26:51
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answered by Answers! 3
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Cheating is Not at all right. Your Girl would be devistated .. Why are you cheating just to prove someting to her parents..
2006-08-05 21:25:42
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answered by Windwispers 4
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