i've gotten close to this guy and didnt think he ever felt anything for me. we were cool and we would joke around. he was a great listener and we would tell eachother our problems. i was so happy cuz i thought i finally found a guy that only wants to be my friend. but i started feeling like he was jealous when i started liking someone. then i heard things from my friends that he did like me. ahh i just want to be friendss but i dont want this to mess up our friendship.he's a great guy and i would hate to see him get hurt. i wish he never liked me and everything would just go back to normal.
2006-08-05 14:00:49 · 6 answers · asked by sharstar 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just tell him that you want to be friends.....and you want things back to normal.....You can't control how he feels, but its best to be honest before he gets hurt. Maybe you can help him out by finding him a girlfriend!
2006-08-05 14:15:11 · answer #1 · answered by hersh108 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What u wish is perfect 4 u but it could be really hurtfull 4 him ...anyway u seem to be a good friend so just sit down w/ him or take a walk or something that makes u relax and just let him know that u dont wanna hurt him and that ur about to tell him something that he's not gonna like but u wanna be honest in honor of your friendship and i think he'll understand at 1rst dont expect things to be the same remember that he doesnt wanna be just a friend and to assume that position again is gonna take a while ...wish u LUCK !
2006-08-05 14:08:47 · answer #2 · answered by wenckiepr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you tell a guy you JUSt want to be friends by follow some of these things and maybe 1 of them might work
just call him and tell him
text time
tell him your moving to alaska
say u like a nother guy
say ur the best guy i ever meet but i think we shhould be friends i just dont c us as boy friend girl friend
i hope 1 of these works 4 u !!!!!!!!!!! good luck
2006-08-05 14:07:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I have always said that guys, no matter how friendly they seem, they always want YOU. That is why you have to tell them from the beggining...Just friends and nothing else, not now and never....that way you know, if he sticks around, he just wants to be friends, if he stops talking, he defenitely wanted you....Try talking to him and tell him you just want to be friends...it'll work out!! He has to understand!!
2006-08-05 14:06:33 · answer #4 · answered by Ramiro S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you kool and i like spendin time with you but i think we should just be friends cuz we have a really kool chemistry as friends
2006-08-05 14:05:14 · answer #5 · answered by sexy_enchanted2320032005 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why do you cling to him like that...you were letting him get to close to you... somone did that to me... but we are still best friends... hopefully he will respect you... he should respect you for that...
2006-08-05 14:05:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋