im white and was born in america and my boyfriend is hispanic.. born in colombia.. we have 2 complete backgrounds.. he grew up with drinking and smoking and it being okay.. i on the other hand dont like drinking or smoking.. my dads family was a good family until alcohol and drugs and stuff got mixed into it.. and i have a good reason not to like it.. i told him im not his momma or daddy so i cant tell him what to do.. and to make his own choices.. so he stopped(i guess) and all his friends drink and smoke.. and so he wont bring me around them.. also he was in a relationship for 4 1/2 yrs. and the longest relationship i ever had was 3 months!!(i know its sad but im young) and hes my first love(i know its love) & is that going to cause major problems too?!?! i love him and dont wanna fight or anything but it hurts my feelings when i feel hes comparing me to her!
2006-08-05 14:00:42 · 2 answers · asked by TIFFUhhNEE 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
keep the faith; he'll accept u as u r. don't try to change him they'll only push him away be patient let the relationship grow,
2006-08-05 14:06:03 · answer #1 · answered by Roe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I xYour bf is actually good that he give up his childhood babbit(smoking/drinking/and his social life) to exchange a trust good relationship between you and him. It's not easy to find those guys nowaday.
But on the other hand, you think that the culture and life style are very different between you and him. Someone have to sacrified more to work between you and him out.
You and him are still young. I can give you a suggestion that it is good to have a test on your relationship. Separate for a short while and see how it goes. If you and him feel that missing each other and have a strong feeling to be together. I think he will be the right one for you. If you both separate and find another partner soon, then he is not the right one with your life time.
Good luck for you.
Joyce
2006-08-05 21:46:51 · answer #2 · answered by joyce_lovely_gir1 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋