im going into hight school next year and some of my friends told me ALL the upper classmen always pick up new freshman and just bang em then leave em. then my sister [who is older] told me that is not true... but now im afraid of the upperclassman, even if there my friend and they ask me out- do u think all they want is sex?
should i trust em still?
2006-08-05 13:52:16 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's not true, that's not what they do. Infact, most of the guys who are upperclassman won't give freshman girls the light of day. Not all the guys in highschool want sex, though many do. I've always been trying to find a boyfriend or a guy who likes me, but I've always failed. If you look at my avatar, I look oddly similar to it. Infact, it looks like an exact animation of myself, so I'm not ugly, but I still always wondered why guys didn't like me. One guy (the boyfriend of my friend's friend) told me that the reason why was because guys know that I won't put out. I was appauled by this! Then again, though, he also told me that most guys didn't like the Validvictorians, girls who are smarter than they are, and girls who are taller than most guys... Unfortunately, I'm all four of those, so I realized that I'm not going to get a boyfriend any time soon.
Still, though, most guys will go out with you even if you don't want anything sexual. Some of my best friends freshman year were senior guys (all of which who were popular, too, oddly enough). I trusted them, though, because they were always polite and nice to me. We were just friends.
Trust them until you have personal reasons not to. And by the time any of that could possibly happen, you'll be older than the majority of guys anyway.
I hope that this helped you out! Good luck in highschool, I'm sure that you'll do fine (I love highschool, it's awesome).
-Lella^_^
2006-08-05 14:01:08 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea seriously dont trust em. an upperclassman almost got in my pants as a frosh. it was a tad scary so watch out! it could happend to u! o and by the way- HIGH SCHOOL GUYS ARE ***** PATHETIC! im an incoming junior and cant wait to meet some decent guys in college!!!!
2006-08-05 20:58:35 · answer #2 · answered by seximermaid 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Highschool, college, single, married, divorced...
We all want the same thing. But some of us just going about trying to get it more nicely than others.
2006-08-05 20:58:06 · answer #3 · answered by kako 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the upperclassmen do take advantage of lower classmen. b good friends, but if they ask u out, dont hav sex w/ them.
2006-08-05 20:58:37 · answer #4 · answered by Madison 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some do and some don't....you just need to get to know them before you even think about doing anything with them
2006-08-05 20:57:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sex n dont trust em
2006-08-05 20:56:42 · answer #6 · answered by devil_queen_biatch14 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋